Searching for the perfect P-spot toy for my boyfriend

Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
My partner and I are searching for the perfect p-spot toy for him.

I want a toy more for actively playing than just something to stick in his ass and leave there.

Problem is, he is VERY beginner. I mean, something not much bigger than a finger. I know a lot will suggest using a finger but we tried that. Unfortunately I have tiny hands and short fingers and I just couldn't stimulate him much at all.

So what toy should I go for? He is apprehensive about it so I want something that will be easy to use (preferably no learning curve) and I want to knock his socks off!
02/22/2013
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
For a beginner, the Njoy Fun Wand should be an excellent choice. The smallest bead is only .75 inch, smaller in size than the Pure Wand you're trying to sell. Here's the Njoy spec.
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If his fingers are bigger perhaps you can get him to find his prostate. If you know how deep it is that can help you choose a toy that works.
02/23/2013
Contributor: xnxxmax xnxxmax
Definitely try the Aneros Helix. It is great for beginners in prostate play as it is small enough for ease of insertion and offers good pressure on the prostate. An added benefit is that it can be used hands free, so your hands can be up to other things while the toy gives him incredible sensations. And it can be worn during sex as well! It can also be played with/thrusted gently in and out.
02/23/2013
Contributor: Alex Time Alex Time
ScottA is right. Try with your hands first. He has to be super aroused. The njoy wands are great but he should rather try a plug first to get him from beginner to more advanced.

From the perspective of getting you getting involved a dildo would be the best bet.
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Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
njoy pure wand, hands down the best.
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