Prostate orgasm induced "squirting" for me? What's going on?!?

Contributor: getitstarted getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even after 5 months of 1-3 weekly sessions.

Side note: Although, I did manage to get the wife introduced to the whole "pegging" aspect by having it inside of me and then having her thrust into me or ride on top of her. We've had some amazing sessions and can even cum from it, but I still wasn't able to get over the edge hands free. She actually had her first "pegging induced" orgasm with me lying face down, her riding my ass with the protruding part of the "K Tab" which stimulated her clit. Happy to say, the best sex of my life has been in these sessions with her and prostate/anal play.

Continuing: Thus, the purchase of the Bendable Too You. At the first few attempts of just holding it on the prostate sent good vibes, but nothing spectacular. Then, after a few sessions, I started to go deeper with it by discovering that it felt amazing with the whole "pumping" aspect that I wasn't use to with the Aneros just sitting there and slightly moving with muscle contractions. Soon, I discovered the method for my orgasm was douching, emptying bladder, getting in the shower to play without having to hold anything back, having the toy pretty much straight except for the end bent to 90* as a handle, "shoot" about 3-6cc of lube inside of myself, laying on back, knees bent or resting on the shower indention, and starting off slow and then letting the sensations and dirty thoughts build. By the end I'm literally pounding as fast as I can with the mental image of her pegging me with her amazing body and that unbelievable face she makes when she's cumming. Then, I contract my abdomen, pc floor muscles, and then push out with my sphincter muscles. This sends me into earth shattering, mind melting into nacho cheese, full body anal orgasm, with no erection during the entire process. It's a good thing I'm alone, because I'm sure it sounds like I'm practicing my Finding Bigfoot calls in the shower!

Now my problem/issue or "unheard of" dilemma. Whenever I orgasm, the best way to describe it, is to "squirt". We've all seen videos of girls doing it, which until this point, I thought they were faking and just peeing, just because of the sheer volume released. But, after experiencing this with my orgasm, I can't seem to find an answer as to why my body is doing this! It's not pee, it's clear and thick like pre-cum, but comes out in buckets. Also, after having the first orgasm, I keep going and going and have these same orgasms time after time where my PC muscles involuntarily contract hard and have these amounts of discharge. I continue through about 5 series of orgasms, each decreasing the volume that's discharged down to a dribble for the last, then I'm completely spent and have to lay there recovering for a good 10-15min staring off into space trying to collect myself.

My question is, "Is this natural? Is it common? What biological process is going on with my body?" Now, we've all witnessed "prostate milking" where the fluid from the prostate is excreted in a slow "oozing" manner, but as described, this is totally different and haven't seen a video of it before. Just reaching out to the community for some feedback! Hope to hear at least some sort of explanation and hopefully I'm not alone!
02/01/2013
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Contributor: xnxxmax xnxxmax
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Originally posted by getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even ... more
Hi!
I think what is happening is completely natural.

To understand this process it's important to understand the anatomy down there. If you look at a sagittal section of the male reproductive system (type that into google images) you can clearly see the prostate and penis etc... Just below the prostate is a tiny gland called the "Cowper's Gland." This structure is responsible for creating and storing pre-ejaculate fluid. This fluid is used by the body to lubricate the urethra and clear it of acidic urine in order to provide a more favorable environment for sperm.

During intense prostate stimulation you are most likely causing an up-down motion of the Cowper's Gland as your toy moves in and out and against your prostate. This motion can cause the gland to release lots of pre-ejaculate and thus we often see lots coming out during prostate play. But this still doesn't explain the forceful emission that you have observed.

I think that the most likely explanation for this is that during anal or prostate orgasm, the pubic floor muscles and many smooth-muscle groups in the pubic region tense extremely hard and create that wonderful orgasmic feeling. This tensing could constrict the urethra as well as the duct leading from the Cowper's gland to the urethra. Because the pressure would increase dramatically with this constriction, the emission of pre-ejaculate would come out much more forcefully than normal.

I would definitely suggest being careful when thrusting so strongly as there is a possibility that the rough thrusts could tear your rectal wall. Give your Aneros another go and really try to relax and "do nothing" during your sessions. Check out the Aneros web forums for some advice and help!!!

Hope this helps you understand what might be going on!
02/24/2013
Contributor: Alex Time Alex Time
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Originally posted by getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even ... more
The explanation above sounds plausible. Just to let you know, I too experience my prostate play this way, buckets of the stuff. I don't have the intense sensation that you describe but the fluid definitely shoots everywhere. I am working towards my O though, had a mammoth 2hr session tonight that was pretty amazing!
06/17/2013
Contributor: Jesse-in-TX Jesse-in-TX
I am going to do my best to replicate your process. It sounds to me to be a splendid time and I am all for it!
04/13/2014
Contributor: or31acres@gmail.com or31acres@gmail.com
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Originally posted by getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even ... more
Great to read this! I've been playing with my ass for years - in the tub with the handle of a toothbrush as a teen, building up to quite a toolbox of awesome toys now in my 50s! I've run the idea of pegging by the wife, but she's not interested. We have a great sex life, but I'm alone in my pursuit of anal pleasures.

Suffice to say that when she's away, I have some great dates with myself. This year I've had several opportunities, and first discovered the squirting phenomenon in Feb. I was at the end of a long session alternating between stretching, depth play, and pounding to induce anal orgasms, going harder than ever with my glass dildo, when clear fluid started squirting out under high pressure. I was so far gone into ecstasy at that point I didn't really analyze it much. I did a little web research, didn't come up with anything, and wondered if I could do it again.

Well. Wife was away for four weeks visiting her sister recently, so I had several dates with myself, and boy did I figure this out. I can now do it at will. It works best with my really big dildo, which I work up to over the course of an hour or more (after first getting thoroughly cleaned out with a long enema session). Riding that thing for just a few seconds produces incredibly strong contractions that I now know how to direct to produce copious squirts of clear precum-like juice. I can do this over and over again. I can also do it with a smaller dildo by pounding really fast, as you describe. But the big guy is the best. (I wish I had made of video of my last session before she got home, but I was too hot to bother with the camera!)

I finally thought to look up "male version of squirting" and found several posts describing the phenomenon. There's another way to do it that is more commonly described: hold your rod with one hand, and then rub just the tip really fast with your well-lubed other hand, and push when you feel something wanting to come out. I've tried this a couple of times and sort of succeeded, but the anal method is way better for me.

Here's the best video I've found so far of a guy squirting like I do (although he's not pushing it out with force; I can do it both ways): link

More guys should enjoy this! It feels entirely different than a standard orgasm, and doesn't prevent one from having a normal orgasm after. (I haven't tried squirting after a normal cum, because by then I'm spent - but that's on my to-do list!)
06/14/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
The Billy prostate massager is pretty good after one learns how to use it. Read my review on it. Also the Pure Wand by N Joy is super duper. And the PW is great for the Mrs too.
06/18/2014
Contributor: 1 squirt 2 1 squirt 2
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Originally posted by getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even ... more
I had the same thing happen to me., I thought id pissed all over the bed. The thing is it doesn't smell like urine and its slightly viscus. Its definitely something i would recommend for guys to try out.
02/19/2017
Contributor: Metalo Metalo
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Originally posted by getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even ... more
I too have had this happen. I've been trying for months to achieve a hands free orgasm (partially just to see if I could). A couple of my ex girlfriends used to peg me and it always felt incredible but never reached orgasm without someone stroking me. Then a few years ago I was dating a trans woman who like to top and after one night I actually had to beg her to stop, I just felt like I couldn't take any more. I felt bad about it cause she gave me that disappointed look and told me that she had been close. I tried to sympathize by saying that I hadn't either but she pointed and said it looked otherwise, I had a thin clear fluid all over my stomach. Years later, I had a boyfriend that when we had sex in a certain position made me feel like I had to pee (even though I already had). Out of fear of wetting the bed I made him stop when this would happen. After talking to a woman who was into prostate milking she told me that the feeling 'could' be normal and can often happen during a milking. So i tried one night while I was alone, starting with a prostate massager, then stepped up to a dildo. I have never been much when it comes to leaking pre-cum so the levels were small. As the sensation build I tried not to fight it, and after five or so minutes of just enjoying it I felt a small wave of pleasure rush over me and two really large squirts of fluid shot out. I stopped immediately, kinda freaked out thinking I had just peed, but then another slighlty smaller squirt. I started cleaning up and noticed that the fluid wasn't yellow, had no smell, and was slightly viscous. I still wasn't convinced what it was but after cleaning up tried to rub one out the old fashioned way cause I still felt a bit horny. I orgasmed but almost nothing came out, just a dribble. Thinking about it, I think the clear fluid was pure seminal fluid from the seminal vesicle. So wild, I'm gonna try it again.
02/25/2017
Contributor: Rik6385 Rik6385
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Originally posted by getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even ... more
I'm unsure if it's normal for guys but I've just started doing the same thing. I've been able to have prostate orgasms, and I can just keep having them with hardly any effort. Two nights ago I was having such a session and when I orgasmed this time it came out as a long continuous stream. Not just urine but what seems to be a mixture of lubricant and urine. I was in disbelief at first but upon trying every three to four minutes, each try produced the same new results. I've been freaking out thinking I might have injured myself but I did a search to find they have proved men too can squirt. It's a strange new life but it's getting to be a bigger sticky mess when I play. Just happy to know I'm not the only one.
09/17/2022
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
Can confirm the multiple prostate squirting orgasms. I have found this ability and great pleasure is accessible only when engaging in regular anal play for months & supplemented by kegels. Unfortunately, when I took a long break I found you have to re-learn how to do it. Which again takes months of practice.

It is extremely pleasurable- and unusual for a male to experience half a dozen or a dozen orgasms. It is strange that it is so good and so mysterious and uncommon. I had read a lot about the mythical P-spot orgasms and had almost given up on them, concluding it a myth. And then it finally happened. Enjoy
09/23/2022
Contributor: Bluejuice Bluejuice
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Originally posted by getitstarted
So, for a brief background, I started experimenting about 6 months ago with the purchase of the Aneros Helix. I would spend hours each week not getting anywhere, some good feelings, stronger muscles, involuntary spasms, but never over the edge even ... more
I came across this years ago when p spot training and nobody seemed to know about it.After thoroughly investigating the common consensus is it’s to do with the Cowper gland.Method of obtaining it is whilst properly stimulated to “come shallow” and slightly angled with toy and squirt you shall.It does freak you out at first because you are worked up but feels like urination but hoping for orgasm then a urine like stream comes out thats silky/urine can be repeated continuously.Top tip be on a big towel when doing it.
04/20/2023
Contributor: ThatGuyWithTheToys ThatGuyWithTheToys
Do you mean prostate leakage? it sometimes produces liquid in response to direct stimulation
07/17/2023