I wanted to post this to maybe gain some insight into how to properly go about prostate massage with my partner.
We tried it this past weekend and used my Seduex Please dildo as well as some water-based lubricant. In addition to the lube, we tried it in the shower, though the water and humidity made the lube wash off almost instantly. We managed to get it in and played with it a bit, but he said he didn't get anything from it sensation wise.
Did we do something wrong? Is the p-spot like the g-spot in that it's harder to find in some guys? Could it be a potential mental block that he's experiencing? And, lastly, is there anything you would recommend for us to do or toys to try for next time?
We tried it this past weekend and used my Seduex Please dildo as well as some water-based lubricant. In addition to the lube, we tried it in the shower, though the water and humidity made the lube wash off almost instantly. We managed to get it in and played with it a bit, but he said he didn't get anything from it sensation wise.
Did we do something wrong? Is the p-spot like the g-spot in that it's harder to find in some guys? Could it be a potential mental block that he's experiencing? And, lastly, is there anything you would recommend for us to do or toys to try for next time?