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Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
Playing the devil's advocate here, against the people who don't like the way this post is, I just wanted to say:

My husband was NOT into anal at all before I convinced him. And it wasn't even really convincing. I basically just told him to relax and let me do it, and now, he loves it. And there have been things that he has done to me that end up the same way. I think that different partners teach you different things sometimes, and as long as there is a trust, it's okay to try and get your partner into something.
11/08/2011
Contributor: HouseWench HouseWench
My husband wasn't really 'into it' per se, but he wasn't very against it either. Whether he'll let me do anything or not depends on how submissive he feels
12/18/2011
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
my guy wont even listen to it
12/18/2011
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
Still trying
12/18/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
"Popping their black cherry". Never heard that expression until right now.
12/24/2011
Contributor: EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
Still trying to get my lady to warm up to it. I mean, I'm not pushing too hard for it (excuse the pun) because I don't want her to bug out. I mean, I'm sure she wouldn't, but...eh. In my lifetime, opening up about sexual matters hasn't led to good things.
01/07/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by GoodMorningSunshine
I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For ... more
No resistance whatsoever
01/13/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
interesting topic
01/13/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Wish there were more girls out there that were into this. Think of your G-spot in your butt, wouldn't that change your mind?
01/13/2012
Contributor: Funtastic Funtastic
Hubby came to me.
01/30/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by Xavier7
I don't like the way this post sounds. It sounds like you're coercing someone into something he/she doesn't want to do. I'd actually prefer if you had refrained from this post at all. It sounds manipulative and wrong. I would never do ... more
Why is it that any time that anyone says anything about having to convince there partner into something you are somehow raping them or something?

My partner has to convince me to let him have anal sex with me... but I do it because he wants me to and it doesn't offen me if he wants to.

Flagging this most seems a little extreme, a man wouldn't let her touch if they wern't okay with it.

Sometimes it takes a little convincing and the majority of the time people end up liking things after they try them
02/06/2012
Contributor: ConiMarie ConiMarie
Quote:
Originally posted by GoodMorningSunshine
I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For ... more
My friend and I have never done this before but when giving him a BJ Sat, I just went there and he liked it, really liked it. He did it to me as well and I really enjoyed it. I think this will be part of our play from now on.......any suggestions on lube?
02/06/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by GoodMorningSunshine
I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For ... more
He totally refuses
02/14/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by GoodMorningSunshine
I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For ... more
He totally refuses
02/17/2012
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
My husband loves it.
I wanted to try it when we first got together and eventually I got a finger in there... and that was it.

It took years after that to get my finger in again and now he's into pegging with my feeldoe.

Pretty cool.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
I also don't understand the flagging of this thread, or the equating of it with forceful coercion...

I'm pretty much the token example of "wasn't raped, but was highly persuaded to try it"...I'm so glad I finally acquiesced, because I *love* it when my wife pegs me now, or does me with one of our glass toys, or sticks her fingers in my ass to massage my prostate...I've never cum so hard or so intensely. It took us quite a while to get from there to here, and it did involve lots of her asking me to think about letting her try this or that over the years.. Nothing wrong with skillful persuasion...she never did anything I said no to (until I finally said yes, anyways), even if she asked me to reconsider from time to time.

If someone wants you to try something outside your comfort zone, especially penetrative, chances are pretty good they're not going to be rough...they want there to be a second, third, etc time, not just a first "OUCH, STOP IT!" time, right?
02/18/2012
Contributor: Big Dman Big Dman
I had to convince her.
02/18/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by GoodMorningSunshine
I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For ... more
He totally refuses
03/02/2012
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
I had to convince her that she wouldn't hurt me and that I wanted to try it.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
XD i'm a guy and i wouldn't put up a fight unless i was playing hard to get (which i love doing)
05/27/2012
Contributor: Sundae Sparkles Sundae Sparkles
so I've been teasing my boy about it for over a year... and out of the blue last night without me teasing at all... he was like put it in my butttttt and I was all like hell ya... fist he allowed me to put in a finger and then allowed me to put anal beads in... he said he felt resistance but it felt interesting and different... I really liked exploring his body and the fact that he allowed me to do something like that "he is this manly man man thing"
so girls
1. how do I get him to try it again
2. how do I get him to like it
3. how to I get him to want it
4. how to I talk him in to trying other things

XD
06/13/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by GoodMorningSunshine
I've made it a point to convince every guy I've been with to let me finger them, whether they were into it or not. I have no idea why, it just happens to be something I enjoy doing, but I've run into different levels of resistance. For ... more
never done that
06/21/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
never done it
06/28/2012
Contributor: CalebC CalebC
I like it myself, but that seems kind of overly forceful...
07/15/2012
Contributor: Mirachaya Mirachaya
I convinced my partner to do it but it was more of answering the questions of "isn't it going to be really gross?" "won't it hurt a lot?". With an ex- it was those same questions and the "Will it make me gay" stigma. I think it is okay to reassure a partner on any questions they have on an act they are unsure of but anything past that borders on coercive sex.
07/27/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
i love it
07/27/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyStuff
Still working on convincing him
he will
07/27/2012
Contributor: klyte klyte
My girlfriend's had to slowly ease me into it.
07/27/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
She asked me and of course I agreed. If she ask me to try something I probably will. I was a bit hesitant at first and it took some "convincing" but glad we tried it. I was surprised it felt so good...just remember to use some kind of lube, no dry humping!
07/27/2012
Contributor: The Majikat The Majikat
Were working on it
10/24/2012