Please excuse the novel - I've posted on here before about having a p-spot orgasm and have tried a lot the suggestions people have given. I feel like every time I try I get closer and closer to having that total body prostate orgasm. Tonight I got closer than I've ever been before - so close I could feel myself about to scream (or at least moan very loudly). I was using my entire anal toy arsenal (Hand Maiden, Billy, Feeldoe, and Blue Spiral G glass dildo). I was going solo and must have been at it for close to two hours, longer than ever before. I felt myself going up the hill toward my goal, faster and faster with increasing pleasure and literally felt like I was millimeters away from having an anal orgasm. But it never happened.
Part of the reason I failed this time had to do with getting tired. I was at it for so long. Another reason I usually fail (though not a problem tonight) - I usually start stroking my cock and reach a point where I can't stop with the hand job and just finish myself off before any real prostate action happens.
Tonight I kept my hands away from my cock (mostly) and used plenty of lube. I took most of the advice people have given before (going slow, not rushing, not going to pee despite the urge) and discovered a new trick on my own. I found that if I took long strokes with my glass dildo - bringing it completely out, then sliding it back in and hitting my prostate at a moderate speed - worked wonders. I also like to use slow, firm pressure, kind of like stroking, with the head of the dildo. After a few cycles of this I can feel prostate fluid moving down my cock, and boy does that feel good.
But the best part was definitely the thrusting where the dildo came out and slid back in over and over. And like I said, I got so close - so frustratingly close!
Can anyone give me any other pointers? Should I set aside three hours next time? Should I work through being tired?
My ass feels so good right now, and the pleasure I felt from the almost-orgasm I had was great, but I still long desperately for that full body orgasm. . . . any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Part of the reason I failed this time had to do with getting tired. I was at it for so long. Another reason I usually fail (though not a problem tonight) - I usually start stroking my cock and reach a point where I can't stop with the hand job and just finish myself off before any real prostate action happens.
Tonight I kept my hands away from my cock (mostly) and used plenty of lube. I took most of the advice people have given before (going slow, not rushing, not going to pee despite the urge) and discovered a new trick on my own. I found that if I took long strokes with my glass dildo - bringing it completely out, then sliding it back in and hitting my prostate at a moderate speed - worked wonders. I also like to use slow, firm pressure, kind of like stroking, with the head of the dildo. After a few cycles of this I can feel prostate fluid moving down my cock, and boy does that feel good.
But the best part was definitely the thrusting where the dildo came out and slid back in over and over. And like I said, I got so close - so frustratingly close!
Can anyone give me any other pointers? Should I set aside three hours next time? Should I work through being tired?
My ass feels so good right now, and the pleasure I felt from the almost-orgasm I had was great, but I still long desperately for that full body orgasm. . . . any advice would be greatly appreciated!