Orgasm with prostate massage

Contributor: luvinluv luvinluv
My BF and I have begun to explore prostate massage, I went out and bought him an aneros after reading so many wonderfull things about it. He does love it and yes it does seem too have a learning curve to it. My question is if it feels so good and he comes so close to orgasms with the aneros and Penis stimulation but he just can't quite get there. It's like the aneros is stopping an ejaculation? Is that possible? Would it be that the sensations are too different that it can only be one or the other, but not both?
04/13/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by luvinluv
My BF and I have begun to explore prostate massage, I went out and bought him an aneros after reading so many wonderfull things about it. He does love it and yes it does seem too have a learning curve to it. My question is if it feels so good and he ... more
With what you have here, it almost sounds like a relaxation issue. If he's getting too into it and too worked up, it might not happen for him.

As with anything backdoor related: time, patience, and lots of good lube.

Good Luck!
04/13/2010
Contributor: LavenderLive LavenderLive
I would agree with JR. Anal stimulation can be a very intense sensation. Relaxation is important and is taking it slowly. My husband and I have found that new sensations, even pleasureable ones can delay or stop ejaculations if you are not accustomed to them. Stimultor size, stimulation speeds and intensity can also impact your results. It is different for everyone.
06/06/2010