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Contributor: sweet sally sweet sally
Just ordered a strap on, hope to get it tomorrow and use it this weekend! So excited! Hope it works out well.
Bf and I were at a toy shop last weekend and he saw them, then I walked by and said, "their not itimidating looking". We didn't get one. Then later that weekend end we were doing some anal play and he said, "should've gotta the strap on".
Yeah! I'd been hinting for awhile, but I thought that was something I would let him suggest.
09/23/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Relevant topic analysis on Strap on dildo:

BDSM
Ladies if your man asked you to pee on him would you?

Why is this topic under the BDSM category??
This may have been discussed previously, but I'm still somewhat new here, and was quite confused to find the Strap It On topic listed under the BDSM..

Strap-on with access?
I'm a straight male, but I really enjoy prostate stimulation. I would love to find a strap-on that allows access to her while it enters. Basically, I.

Lace RodeOh. How stable is the lace fabric? Would it snag easily.
What do you think?

Question about Strap-On Sex...
Okay. Here's the deal.

My girlfriend and I are new to the strap-on sex realm of lesbian sex. We're using a harness and have three (yes, 3) fairly
09/23/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
wooohooo! have fun this weekend
09/23/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
OoooOOoo! Have fun!
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Congratulations and good luck!

Few suggestions:

-Try on the harness and dildo before "the night". That way you know how it goes on and is adjusted so that you don't wind up fumbling in the dark.

-Once the harness is adjusted, wear it with the dildo attached, again to get a feel for it. Obviously the harness needs to be comfortable, but it should be tight enough so that you can control the dildo.

-Use lots of lube, then use some more. And go slow.

-Not every position works for every couple. Experiment with different positions. Some are harder simply due to the difference in body sizes. However, you can make creative use of pillows to help out.

Have fun!
09/23/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Woohoooo! Welcome to the club. I'm telling you there's no going back, I guarantee you guys will be hooked. Good advice listed above, I definitely recommend trying the strap-on out by yourself to get comfortable with the feel of it. The first time I ever used a strap-on I was very surprised at how it was...less than intuitive I guess? Takes some getting used to. But congrats and good luck
09/23/2010
Contributor: sweet sally sweet sally
All I can say is AWESOME!!
09/28/2010
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
Grats on your first strapon.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Quote:
Originally posted by sweet sally
Just ordered a strap on, hope to get it tomorrow and use it this weekend! So excited! Hope it works out well.
Bf and I were at a toy shop last weekend and he saw them, then I walked by and said, "their not itimidating looking". We ... more
Yay! Congratulations! Have fun and enjoy!
12/05/2010
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
have fun! let us know what you think of it.
12/12/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
You're doing anal play together, good. I second Kindred's suggestion with the addition of trying "jacking off" a bit to get the feel for how it works. Make sure you thrust the dildo rather than just moving your hands.

Secondly make sure you find a position where he's relaxed and not having to hold himself up. It makes insertion easier when you're not experienced, and even when you are.

Thirdly, start off with both genital and anal foreplay, but when you start pegging lay off the genital play for a while. Often playing with his penis will cause him to tighten his anus, so wait for a few minutes until he's relaxed back there and you can thrust comfortably.
12/13/2010
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Welcome to the Pegging Life!!!
01/16/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
Congrats! I hope you're both enjoying it!
01/16/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
Way to go! Have fun!
01/16/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Sally I hope you 2 are still enjoying it.
06/07/2011
Contributor: CharlieBrown CharlieBrown
Oh man, I can't wait for my wife to give it to me this weekend! glad to know there are other couples out there enjoying some pegging!
06/16/2011
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by sweet sally
Just ordered a strap on, hope to get it tomorrow and use it this weekend! So excited! Hope it works out well.
Bf and I were at a toy shop last weekend and he saw them, then I walked by and said, "their not itimidating looking". We ... more
You will love it My wife fucks me about once a week. There is a great instructional video on the web site xnxx.com, Just type strap on master class in the search blank. There are nine 10 minute videos. Very well done.

Here is some advice from a couple who have been pegging for years.

We prefer vibrating silicone dildos. Our harness has a vibrator that along with the vibrator in the base of the dildo stimulate her clitoris while she fucks me. The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 1/2 inch, but 7 inches long is fine. Our favorite position is with me on my back with my legs drawn up. She gets between my legs and after lubing my opening and the dildo she inserts the dildo slowly and begins thrusting while she gives me a handjob. We usually cum together. We use Wet Original lube and lots of it.

An enema is optional for him. I use a Fleet Enema with plain water.

Enjoy. First time pegging is exceptional. Let us know your results and any questions.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
Congratulations. It's also a good thing that you let him suggest it, as you know that you both want it now. Have fun!
09/05/2011
Contributor: kfdarling kfdarling
Wish I could get my wife to be open to it!
12/08/2011
Contributor: GRRRRR GRRRRR
I am going to try it this weekend for the first time
12/08/2011
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Nice)
02/11/2012
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
I was this excited with my first strap on too.
I'm still this excited.

I know this thread is old, but - how'd it go?
02/18/2012
Contributor: Big Dman Big Dman
wow this thread is old... but congrats anyways! Hope you and your bf had fun
02/18/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by sweet sally
Just ordered a strap on, hope to get it tomorrow and use it this weekend! So excited! Hope it works out well.
Bf and I were at a toy shop last weekend and he saw them, then I walked by and said, "their not itimidating looking". We ... more
have fun
03/02/2012