The New Intimacy

I need some advice about pegging!

Skip to last post
Set alerts
Updates
Forum search
Contributor: FreedominBondage FreedominBondage
My boyfriend and I interested in trying pegging. What dildos and p-spot massagers do you suggest using as we work our way up?
08/13/2012
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Save Extra 20% On Love Cushion And Toy Set!
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • Save 50% On Shower Nozzle With Enema Set
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Relevant topic analysis on Pegging:

Just started a blog on Strap-on sex
I just started a blog on Strap-on sex at link if any one is interested. The first thing I did was posted my favorite story about a pegging...

What harness is featured in this video?
This video has some extreme pegging. My gf wants to take a toy that wide (but not that long) - what model of harness and ring are in the video?

Mega Strap-on Blog Filled with Stories, Advice and more! Even a position guide with pictures!
If you are looking for a place to find tons of stories about strap-on sex, advice on getting started with pegging or just want to see a visual...

If you are into "pegging", does the male in your relationship, ever use the harness to please his lady...when he has "run down"?
I know men have also used an artificial extension or additional appendage for ages, to compensate for a flaccid penis or when they want to sport two..

Getting around gender issues with pegging.
So I was talking with my wife today and I finally found out her issue with pegging is that she feels it's like I'm the female and she's the male. Does...
08/13/2012
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
If he is an absolute beginner, you need to play a bit with toys and fingers and not rush into pegging. So I usually advice a selection of toys that you can take according to your material and size preference. Have a look and let me know if you need more. There are also some good advices on the forum just search for it.


Blush UR3 Anal Starter

or a silicone alternative:
Sedeux Please

To grow up I'd suggest:
Pure Skin Player jr

The silicone alternative is:
VIP Super Soft

For Butt Plugs:

The best training of all times (after you grow out of the beginners toys):
Triple Ripple

Best Butt Plug (I guess many will agree):
Ryder

And finally my personal favorite among plugs:
Gapers Organic

Generally speaking that's my product advice. For lubes you have to look for yourself what suits you more. Just don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, it really kills them. The rest as usual, hygiene, foreplay, foreplay, lube -> and plenty of fun
08/15/2012
Contributor: molly molly
Quote:
Originally posted by Chou Wang
If he is an absolute beginner, you need to play a bit with toys and fingers and not rush into pegging. So I usually advice a selection of toys that you can take according to your material and size preference. Have a look and let me know if you need ... more
^ Very helpful post! Thanks so much.
08/15/2012
Contributor: FreedominBondage FreedominBondage
Thanks!
08/16/2012
Contributor: playsalot playsalot
I would start out with a comfortable sized butt plug to play with and when he is comfortable with that then move on to a strapon. The sizes are going to be a personal preferance. If he has never had any thing up there start small with plenty of lube. Take it slow and make sure he is completely relaxed.
08/16/2012