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Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
So, hello, I am a female switch who owns a beautiful and perfect male sub, and I am curious about pleasuring him anally. We have discussed it and both have an interest in trying pegging, but I would want to start with fingering. I know that I would use a glove and a condom on the strap-on, and plenty of anal lube (I have MAXIM and I have heard good reviews from a couple I've been friends with for years that loves pegging) though I don't have a strap-on yet. I was curious if anyone has any additional tips on our first time fingering and pegging, aside from using protection and lots of lube. I also have a strong desire to avoid any...poop on anything if possible. Also, I've never 'found' a prostate before, what does it feel like? Basically any discussion in this direction will be helpful.

Haha, I'm really new to this so this is going to sound silly, but anyone who can help me please send your advice. :3
12/05/2015
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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12/05/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
If u are wanting to please him anally I have read to make it is washed thoroughly back there and u might want to start out with maybe a prostate massager or plug before advancing to using a strap on. Hope this helps u out
12/06/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
An easy way to start is with the Amethyst glass dildo. It is curved to hit the P or G spot. And other end is beaded for pleasure also. It is also not that thick. Only $16 here on EF and you might be able to grab another %15.
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Inexpensive, easy to clean and not worries of p _ _ p. If it comes out clean then you're not have to worry when you want to try your finger. Debris should be further up the rectum. Also waiting til you know he emptied is good.

And as Andy mentioned, good to go to 1st base, then 2nd, before trying for home plate.
12/06/2015
Contributor: anelinvader anelinvader
Quote:
Originally posted by emiliaa
So, hello, I am a female switch who owns a beautiful and perfect male sub, and I am curious about pleasuring him anally. We have discussed it and both have an interest in trying pegging, but I would want to start with fingering. I know that I would ... more
Well first thing first is a clean bottom, in side and out, is a happy bottom. Invest in a enema kit and have your sub do a good clean out. This could turn in to other fetish play along the way.
Start slow before introducing a strap-on to his pucker, glove up, use plenty of lube and massage his anus to soften and relax him, then you can slowly work your way in. Once in find that prostate and massage it, he will beg for more I bet. Try some small vibes and dildos working your way up over time to the size of the strap on. As you are working up on stretching his anus you can intensify your movements as well to get use to the thrusting motion.
Happy and safe play
12/10/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I was informed by an reliable RN that doing enema's often is not recommended. Said there are needed healthy bacteria in there. Washing them out is not good.

I would suggest doing own research. I'm not a medical professional. Just a friendly vanilla bear who loves sports.
12/10/2015