My best advice is just to have fun trying, putting to much effort into it may be limiting you. Have fun and enjoy the stimulation.

Find a toy with a curve like a G-spot toy, something on the firmer side (Does not have to be hard like glass but those work good too) and play around with that. You mentioned that some of the toys go to far in, use that as a guide as to what length works good-measure it and find something a bit shorter.

I find that most plugs do nothing aside from putting some pressure and a lot of the P-spot specific toys take some time to learn as they rely on muscle work to move them.

Something that looks like this will give you the best results-



That curve will help a bunch as the prostate is much like the G-spot. Remember to be sexually excited as the prostate will engorge and be easier to stimulate.

Best of luck.

Impuls'o silicone G-spot stimulator

I need to write that review, I am real surprised how good it works. The vibe is not the greatest but the texture is nice when used in a "wiper" type motion. It is a bit flexible so it does not provide firm pressure but I sure do like it.

Just use a condom over it, I like to use them anyways since it makes cleaning easier.

The Pandora looks pretty good, might have to try that one.

Best of luck, enjoy the time together.

thank you so much for all of your help! A condom. That is a great idea. Now we have to buy some. lol we have been married for so long i don't even remember what they look like. hehehehe

Hubby will definatly do a review of our new toy once we try it out! He loves to write too!

Have a great night.. HUGS Lori and Hubby