When I was a kid, I used to climb the street sign pole outside my house fairly often, and I would also climb swingset poles at the park and playground at school. The reason I liked to do this was that I would get the most amazing pleasure from it that would emanate from my groin and then up through my belly and beyond. I would get to the top of the pole and shimmy my legs, and I would do this for as long as I could hold on to the top of the pole. I was far too young to associate this with anything sexual, and when I discovered masturbation it sort of clicked that the pole climbing pleasure was like the amazing moment right before a regular orgasm, except I could make it last forever on the pole. Needless to say, I remember trying the pole out in my late teens after I had masturbated a fair amount, and I was never able to get any pleasure from it. Fast forward a bunch of years to me getting my first prostate massager. I got this in reaction to the orgasms of my girlfriend at that time. She could have orgasm after orgasm during sex, and sometimes they were so intense she would see colors and have seizures. I was astonished by the amount of pleasure she could experience, and frankly, I became jealous...hence my discovery of the Pspot. My path to actually having a prostate orgasm was pretty long and took quite a bit of patience and experimentation on my part. One thing that ended up helping me along the way though was going back to those pole climbing days when I was really young. Imagining climbing a pole while I have a massager in often leads me on my way to a series of mind blowing super orgasms. I write all of this to maybe help any people out there who are getting frustrated with getting to the point where they are having hands free prostate orgasms. If you have experienced what I am talking about with the pole climbing, you can use this as a tool to get things rolling. Hope this helps. less