Best way to stimulate prostate...

Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
Ok, I am ready to try some fun in the back door and want some advice on which toys to try. I have tried a butt plug and the full feeling was not for me. I am looking for something that my wife can use to stimulate the P spot with direct pressure and some thrusting. What do you use? Would you recommend a dildo and harness or a toy that is hand held? Thanks for your help!!!
02/28/2010
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
Ok, I am ready to try some fun in the back door and want some advice on which toys to try. I have tried a butt plug and the full feeling was not for me. I am looking for something that my wife can use to stimulate the P spot with direct pressure and ... more
Howdy!

There's a LOT of good stuff on here for just that!

Sportsheets has a couple really good products (I've reviewed two).

I'd avoid EVERYTHING that isn't flared...unless you like explaining to ER staffers how it got up there. I'm guessing that'd be more embarrassing for some than others.

Don't forget the lube and just putting the time in by yourself to get to know your inner workings as best you can.

Good luck! Have fun! Mach Spass!
02/28/2010
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
Safety first is a good rule of thumb for anal play, and so flanged base toys are a good idea. That being said, I will also suggest the Tantus G-Force which has a great handle which makes it easy to control and the length is such that as long as one doesn't get too crazy, it should be fine.
03/01/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
A dildo and harness is a great toy, but probably not the thing to get for investigating your P-spot. A wand such as the G-Force is great, or a dildo with a curve (Tantus Curve is good) to use handheld. If you go this route you can always add a harness later.

A G-spot type vibrator is also great for prostate stimulation, as are some of the specialized prostate massagers. I probably wouldn't go for the Aneros type right away, since the sensations are more subtle. Jimbo reviewed some of the Nexus rocker toys and liked them.

Handheld to start with, definitely. It lets you figure your body out without having to worry about positions or someone else. But keep pegging on your list - it's a really fun activity with someone you love.
03/01/2010
Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
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Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
Safety first is a good rule of thumb for anal play, and so flanged base toys are a good idea. That being said, I will also suggest the Tantus G-Force which has a great handle which makes it easy to control and the length is such that as long as one ... more
Thanks, that looks like a really good option!
03/01/2010
Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
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Originally posted by ScottA
A dildo and harness is a great toy, but probably not the thing to get for investigating your P-spot. A wand such as the G-Force is great, or a dildo with a curve (Tantus Curve is good) to use handheld. If you go this route you can always add a ... more
Thanks for the advice, it really helps me think through this fully.
03/01/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
The classix chic wand. My man got off just by using the wand alone, and no penis play. He was in AWE!
03/01/2010
Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
The classix chic wand. My man got off just by using the wand alone, and no penis play. He was in AWE!
Wow, that sounds like good results to me!!!!
03/01/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
Ok, I am ready to try some fun in the back door and want some advice on which toys to try. I have tried a butt plug and the full feeling was not for me. I am looking for something that my wife can use to stimulate the P spot with direct pressure and ... more
Hey I just saw this post and thought I'd make a comment that you may actually like butt plugs. You may just be using the wrong type. Out of curiosity, what butt plug did you try? I don't like the full filling either so plugs like the Tantus Ryder while a great plug just aren't for me. You may want to look into the Tantus Ace Plug Small. It has a longer neck on it which causes it to not make you feel so filled up but is still quite stimulating.
09/07/2010
Contributor: csweatc csweatc
I would try any one of the Aneros products. The original, the MGX is a great device, and these products, with the exception of the Progasm and the Maximus are more designed for mobility rather than fullness. In essence, they are designed to actively massage the prostate. I have had more prostate orgasms that I can count with these.
09/13/2010
Contributor: Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
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Originally posted by csweatc
I would try any one of the Aneros products. The original, the MGX is a great device, and these products, with the exception of the Progasm and the Maximus are more designed for mobility rather than fullness. In essence, they are designed to ... more
Thanks for the helpful advice. I think u have some great options to work with.
09/13/2010
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
Wands are the way to go if you are wanting to do a little exploring, though if you want to do a bit of thrusting I would say maybe a thin dildo with a bit of a curve.
12/05/2010