So, I finally managed to make my girlfriend squirt. Amazing. I sent her home with a Lelo Ella and she's been practising with that for the last couple of weeks. Although she wasn't able to squirt, I think it got her used to the sensation of needing to pee, etc. Today I tried the "come hither" move with just one finger and she squirted all over the bed three times. This is after months of trying.

Anyway, here's my question. None of the gushing was accompanied by orgasms (she's still never had a g-spot orgasm). I assume I am doing something right if she is squirting now, but what's the key to getting her to orgasm as well? Do I need to continue the g-spot stimulation after she has squirted (she stopped me after each time she squirted today and took a rest). Any ideas would be appreciated!! less

When I first started squirting I wasn't sure I was having orgasms either. It just felt like a mild warm sensation that was pleasurable, but not at all well defined. It was really subtle. Have her keep practicing. Her orgasms will continue to strengthen the more she practices. Daily kegeling will help too. less

After I squirt (sometimes), during masturbation, I usually can not take any more stimulation on my g spot, as your g/f said, so I move on and come back again for a g spot orgasm.
With my b/f, I can sometimes have a g spot orgasm while he is slowing thrusting and I am clenching him. Kegels are the key, work on them!
As NS, above, pointed out, g spot orgasms are stronger. Actually they make me feel weak kneed afterwards. less

My wife is a squirter and she has her strongest orgasms when she is clenching as well. She also says kegels were the key to mastering g-spot orgasms.

i also found it is easier to get her to orgasm when using 2 fingers in the "come hither" motion as oppsed to 1. less