Pure Wand, is it worth the hype?

Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I know there's a lot of discussion about the Njoy Pure Wand already, but, as someone who's never had a g-spot orgasm, I'm really considering investing in it. As far as I've read it seems to be really worth it. The question is, is it? Should I drop the cash and get ready for mind-melting orgasms, or would I just be investing in a fancy bludgeoning tool?
12/09/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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12/09/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I just ordered one, yesterday, so hopefully I'll be able to tell you it's the best thing since sliced bread, in a few days!

Either way, if it doesn't work for me in the slightest, I'm going to use it as a meat tenderizer so it won't go to waste.
12/09/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
The Pure Wand is a high quality toy. I know a lot of women swear by the Pure Wand as a g-spot toy. Personally, I can't manage to use it amazingly well for g-spot pleasure, but it's just a little too heavy and a little too thick. I love my Bent Graduate though, with a passion. It's about the same shape as the Pure Wand when it comes to the curvature of the Bent Graduate except the Bent Graduate does have a more extreme curve.
12/09/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I'm with Mistress Kay. Its heavy and awkward to use. Other people didn't find it to be that way but I sure did.

I would suggest the clear ribbed G-spot wonder or the Deep Water G instead. Or Ella. Or Hardwood dildo #359 which is shaped similarly to the Pure Wand but isn't awkward to use and makes finding your G-spot easy as pie.
12/09/2010
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I was very "meh" about the pure wand until a few days ago when I squirted for THE FIRST TIME with it. Now it is the glorious most amazing toy that I own that will need to be pried from my hands in order for me to give it up. NEVER!! I love it.
12/09/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
I just ordered one, yesterday, so hopefully I'll be able to tell you it's the best thing since sliced bread, in a few days!

Either way, if it doesn't work for me in the slightest, I'm going to use it as a meat tenderizer so it ... more
It works real good for back massages too. Don't forget the Zombie Apocalypse.

My wife did not care for it, bruised pubic bone, not fun.
12/09/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
It works real good for back massages too. Don't forget the Zombie Apocalypse.

My wife did not care for it, bruised pubic bone, not fun.
Do you use it kind of like a massage stone? (I'm thinking of the contour I here)

And what kind of meat did you think I was tenderizing?
12/09/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
Do you use it kind of like a massage stone? (I'm thinking of the contour I here)

And what kind of meat did you think I was tenderizing?
Ya, we use it warmed with a massage oil. The only problem is you have to be gentle around bones and such. The small end works great for a self massage on my shoulders/neck.

Any kind of meat you want. ~jumps out of the way~
12/09/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
The pure wand takes patience. You really have to get used to a comfortable way to use it solo. It is heavy and you need to be able to have time to work with it. I knew it had a learning curve but once I found that groove it's amazing. I really only bought it on a whim because everyone thought so much of it and I got a good deal on it but seriously I'd knock someone out with it before I'd ever give it up lol. Like TitsMcScandal I can easily make myself ejaculate with the pure wand and I rarely am able too with any other sexual situations. It just takes patience and definitely rocking not thrusting with it. I was scared of the thing when I got it but warmed up to it quickly. Took longer to get used to taking it anally but now even that is rewarding. I am thankful I spent the money I did for it. Don't expect it to be something you open and ride into oblivion but take the time to learn a position for wrist comfort and learn how to let the weight of the pure wand do the work. The more time you spend with it and learning it's abilities the more likely you'll enjoy the purchase.
12/09/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
It works real good for back massages too. Don't forget the Zombie Apocalypse.

My wife did not care for it, bruised pubic bone, not fun.
Ouch I did that too - so gotta remember that wand is not forgiving! But I got over that Hadn't used it for massages though...something new to try.
12/09/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
It absolutely does work, and it feels amazing on the g-spot with excellent results, but it's also heavy, and it can be awkward. I'd also recommend against using it with a partner, because it is so heavy and firm.

The Pure Wand makes my top ten list, but for internal use, there's one toy I like better -- the amazing Jollie, which stimulates not just the g-spot but absolutely every bit of your insides -- and another I like almost as well -- the SSA Glass Amethyst, which works quite a bit like the smaller end of the Pure Wand. All three of those toys work well for rocking type motions, but if you want thrusting, you'll have to look elsewhere. The Jollies Thrust and the Deep Water G are currently at the top of my list when it comes to thrusting toys.
12/09/2010
Contributor: RevekaRoux RevekaRoux
Although it can get heavy, it has worked well for me. I knew about where my g-spot was prior to purchasing it and knew that I enjoyed g-spot stimulation prior to purchasing it so I can't vouch for using it to find the g-spot. However, after a few sessions I learned to orgasm just using the Pure Wand internally (no need for clitoral stimulation). This toy is the first (and so far only) toy I have been able to orgasm with without external stimulation. That alone has made it worth the money to me.
12/09/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Wow, thank you all for the info. I'm doing a comparison right now. Lots of pretty toys to look at. Thank you all for your help. I think I might really enjoy the weight of the Pure Wand, but these other toys look AMAZING!
12/10/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The amazing thing about the Pure Wand is that it is so well balanced. The curve really takes the stress of your hands and wrist - while at the same time maximizing g-spot stimulation. There is no doubt the Pure Wand is my wife's favorite - out of more than 30 toys we own and more than 50 more we've tried.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
After much deliberation and weighing of options, I bought the pure wand with my holiday discount. I'll let you all know how it goes. It should be here today and I'm beyond excited! Thanks for all your input ^_^
12/13/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by SexyTabby
The pure wand takes patience. You really have to get used to a comfortable way to use it solo. It is heavy and you need to be able to have time to work with it. I knew it had a learning curve but once I found that groove it's amazing. I ... more
Perfect response! I was trying to think of how to say pretty much the same thing.

Plus, I love the versatility of it. And that it will last forever. Just an awesome pleasure investment!
12/13/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I think it really depends on the body type. I love it, my gspot is way higher up and more hooked it, and it zeros in on it perfectly. Others, not so much.

It also takes a while to get used to, you can't thrust with it. It's more for rocking/massaging/pres sure.
12/13/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
It absolutely does work, and it feels amazing on the g-spot with excellent results, but it's also heavy, and it can be awkward. I'd also recommend against using it with a partner, because it is so heavy and firm.

The Pure Wand makes ... more
You keep posting about the Jollie and I keep wanting it more and more! I'm going to end up really making this code worth it!
12/13/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
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Originally posted by Kim!
You keep posting about the Jollie and I keep wanting it more and more! I'm going to end up really making this code worth it!
Sorry, I'm a little obsessed with it at the moment.
12/13/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Yeah, expect to take some time to figure out how to use the Pure Wand. It definitely isn't a dildo.

It's fantastic for temperature play, much better than a glass toy, but a glass toy would be similar in many ways so that could be a good way to try it out.
12/13/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I'm glad everyone has cautioned about the learning curve and to give it time, because if not, I might be terribly disappointed. I know I've got to keep trying! Either way, it's beautiful and I can't wait to try it for back massages.
12/13/2010
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
I was REALLY skeptical at first too. It requires a little learning how best to use it for YOUR body, but TOTALLY worth every penny.
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