It hurts when I touch my G-spot!

Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
The G-spot is supposed to be the be all end all of pleasure, right?
Well when I thrust against my spot, it feels kind of nice, but mostly it causes me pain. Why could this be?
Does anybody else have this issue?
12/27/2011
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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
THrusting is quite uncomfortable for me. It's not what I need and I need very specific types of stimulation, otherwise it hurts me. It's a very sharp discomfort/pain, too. Remember that sensitivity can be good or bad/
12/27/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Megan Jean
The G-spot is supposed to be the be all end all of pleasure, right?
Well when I thrust against my spot, it feels kind of nice, but mostly it causes me pain. Why could this be?
Does anybody else have this issue?
hmm... what are you using to thrust? i know that glass toys are uncomfortable, esp. when they have textures.


for me thrusting against the cervix is painful. are you sure it's not the cervix you're hitting? not to assume you don't know your own body but... the female anatomy is quite complicated.




this should help, if you're not sure where it is.

if you are and now i look like a boob for telling you where the g-spot is, i'm sorry!


for me, i just use a g-spot curved silicone toy and gently coax it back and forth. i dont thrust but rather pet it. yes, more like petting.
12/27/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Megan Jean
The G-spot is supposed to be the be all end all of pleasure, right?
Well when I thrust against my spot, it feels kind of nice, but mostly it causes me pain. Why could this be?
Does anybody else have this issue?
Also, remember that not all women find g-spot stimulation to be a pleasant experience. Some bodies do not like any g-spot stimulation.

Try different kinds of stimulation as the other posters have mentioned, but if you still don't like it - just don't do it. There are no rules saying you must have a g-spot orgasm, or a blended orgasm or any other kind of orgasm. You just need to have your orgasm, whatever that entails. And as many as you want!
12/27/2011
Contributor: Nothere Nothere
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Originally posted by indiglo
Also, remember that not all women find g-spot stimulation to be a pleasant experience. Some bodies do not like any g-spot stimulation.

Try different kinds of stimulation as the other posters have mentioned, but if you still don't like it ... more
Ditto. G Spot stimulation doesn't hurt, but it's not aways as great as deep thrusting. Keep exploring, but don't worry if you don't like it. It's not the be all end all of sexual pleasure. Everyone's unique
12/27/2011
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
Thank you everyone. -group hug-
12/28/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I agree, everyone's different! I find that I LOVE broader and less intense g-spot stimulation, but when there's direct and firm stimulation it's very unpleasant! Keep experimenting, is all I can say.
12/28/2011
Contributor: lcl169 lcl169
I too have this issue a lot of the time. It's nice to know that there are other people out there that don't absolutely crave gspot stimulation... thanks!
01/14/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by Megan Jean
The G-spot is supposed to be the be all end all of pleasure, right?
Well when I thrust against my spot, it feels kind of nice, but mostly it causes me pain. Why could this be?
Does anybody else have this issue?
maybe youre getting too rough? or perhaps you have bruised it...

either way i am very sorry to hear about this dear..
01/30/2012