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Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Obviously I don't want to hold back and ruin my orgasms. But the better the orgasms have been getting, the bigger the mess.

I'm just wondering if there's any possible way to reduce this.
08/16/2010
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No ideas - but you have a problem many women would love to have - congratulations!
08/16/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
No ideas - but you have a problem many women would love to have - congratulations!
Haha, I was thinking the same thing.

I love squirting. I've learned to deal with the aftermath. We have squirt towels we use
08/16/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I have no solution. I'd say drink less water before sex but then you run the risk of dehydration.

Different positions, maybe?
08/16/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
No ideas - but you have a problem many women would love to have - congratulations!
Seriously if I had to choose, I would choose to not be able to do it. At least not to the degree that I do.
08/16/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I have no solution. I'd say drink less water before sex but then you run the risk of dehydration.

Different positions, maybe?
Well it can be lessened by certain positions, but then the orgasms in those positions are not that great?

I have no solution either. Just wondering if anyone did.
08/16/2010
Contributor: married with children married with children
I wish my wife had that problem. It seems like we are always trying to find ways to make her squirt more.
12/24/2010
Contributor: volpe bianca volpe bianca
when i was younger i didnt know what squirting was and i thought i was weird and unique. i thought i was pissing the bed. i used to put down towels and tried for a very long time NOT to squirt. now i dont do it as often as i used to and i dont know why or how to get it back to the intensity and frequency as i used to squirt (every time... but not any more)

take it as a blessing or you just might break your vagina :[
12/29/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I don't think so, but why hold back!? Let it go, girl!
01/05/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Obviously I don't want to hold back and ruin my orgasms. But the better the orgasms have been getting, the bigger the mess.

I'm just wondering if there's any possible way to reduce this.
Not really Hun. I've been trying for years to reduce the mess but I have found holding back and going pee just before playing is the only thing that works. I got a Fascinator Throe for the mess and now I let fly!
01/06/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I am purchasing the Fascinator Throe tomorrow for this exact reason. I am sick of washing towels, sheets and blankets several times a week. Hell I am worried I might need a couple of Throes.

Embrace your orgasms!
01/06/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Damn, I'd so love to be able to squirt!
01/06/2011
Contributor: the bedroom blogger the bedroom blogger
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Obviously I don't want to hold back and ruin my orgasms. But the better the orgasms have been getting, the bigger the mess.

I'm just wondering if there's any possible way to reduce this.
Seriously...get yourself a Fascinator Throe. They are a bit pricey...but so totally worth it.

I would literally soak the entire bed before I got mine. You'll be so happy you made the investment.
01/06/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I am purchasing the Fascinator Throe tomorrow for this exact reason. I am sick of washing towels, sheets and blankets several times a week. Hell I am worried I might need a couple of Throes.

Embrace your orgasms!
I need to buy it too. Sometimes I'll opt not to masturbate if I don't feel like changing my sheets.
01/06/2011
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
Your problem is a blessing in many ways, but I suppose the cleanup can get to be a bit of a drag after a while. My wife has squirted a few times, and damn, I wish I could figure out what the hell I did!
01/06/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Quote:
Originally posted by the bedroom blogger
Seriously...get yourself a Fascinator Throe. They are a bit pricey...but so totally worth it.

I would literally soak the entire bed before I got mine. You'll be so happy you made the investment.
I do have a Fascinator Throe. The problem isn't so much the mess on the bed. But that the mess tends to make us have to stop and clean up a bit because I can get so wet sometimes that we lose all friction. Know what I mean?
01/06/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
I do have a Fascinator Throe. The problem isn't so much the mess on the bed. But that the mess tends to make us have to stop and clean up a bit because I can get so wet sometimes that we lose all friction. Know what I mean?
Ahh, I understand completely. We tend to keep hand towels close. It can help to just wipe or pat dry real quick. It doesn't take but a second.
01/06/2011
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
Quote:
Originally posted by kck
Haha, I was thinking the same thing.

I love squirting. I've learned to deal with the aftermath. We have squirt towels we use
same thing
07/09/2012
Contributor: Demonise Demonise
never even squirted :/
07/10/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
I can totally agree with you, I actually feel that all I do is squirt and never have a g-spot orgasm. I found that if I go to the bathroom before any sort of intercourse (be it solo or with my boyfriend) I will squirt less..not sure why but I do...it makes me more comfortable but makes my boyfriend sad because he loves when I squirt, especially if I am straddling his face for an oral session and I squirt on him...it sounds weird but if you have that kind of guy its actually a VERY big turn on! I also have "special" towels that are only used for when I squirt. Maybe invest in one of those leak proof blankets/throws for your sessions and see if that helps. I am going to invest in one soon to see if it helps or not.

Good luck in your quest though!
07/25/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Obviously I don't want to hold back and ruin my orgasms. But the better the orgasms have been getting, the bigger the mess.

I'm just wondering if there's any possible way to reduce this.
I had a little issue with this because I was getting annoyed with cleanup. Now if I'm concerned about it I prop a towel up between my legs and that catches most of it, but if you're looking to slow it down, clench real hard just as you orgasm. Not easy, but I've managed to slow it down that way when I need.
08/04/2012
Contributor: snarknemesis snarknemesis
This thread was really helpful and really good for me to read. I am glad that so many people are willing to share their experiences with this.
08/14/2012