I can't seem to find mine no matter what I do and I am afraid to search with my fingers cause I have long fake nails and don't wanna hurt myself, I feel so embarrassed I can't find it no matter what I do, I even lie and say that my partner has found it when they didn't any advice for this poor gal???
How to Find the Elusive G-Spot?!
04/01/2013
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I just posted this same response in another thread. Hot topic this evening.
It took me years to find it. After trying over and over I just gave up. I recently got the lovely Deep Water G and it rekindled my interest in the 'elusive' g-spot. Within just a few days and lots of experimenting and patience, it finally happened with lots of pressure and rocking. Just fingers never worked for me, so I would definitely suggest a toy, like the Deep Water G, The Amethyst or even the legendary Pure Wand. Keep trying and hopefully you'll get there.
It took me years to find it. After trying over and over I just gave up. I recently got the lovely Deep Water G and it rekindled my interest in the 'elusive' g-spot. Within just a few days and lots of experimenting and patience, it finally happened with lots of pressure and rocking. Just fingers never worked for me, so I would definitely suggest a toy, like the Deep Water G, The Amethyst or even the legendary Pure Wand. Keep trying and hopefully you'll get there.
04/01/2013
we watched a how to DVD that covered it pretty well. We were able to find it right away after viewing it.
04/01/2013
My wife never found hers - but I can easily massage it for her. I call it job security!
But seriously - it's much easier for a partner to access it for you - than for you to do it yourself - unless you are very flexible!
But seriously - it's much easier for a partner to access it for you - than for you to do it yourself - unless you are very flexible!
04/02/2013
I can't find mine with my fingers. Still haven't found it using a toy either. I might have to wait till I have a partner.
04/02/2013
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I am the same way about finger nails! No matter how short mine are, I still cringe at the feeling of them against my insides! So I can't get there with my fingers, not only because of that but because they're not fast & it's tough to reach. Try a g-spotting dildo! Sweet Lola (a glass dildo) works serious miracles for my g-spot!
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I can't seem to find mine no matter what I do and I am afraid to search with my fingers cause I have long fake nails and don't wanna hurt myself, I feel so embarrassed I can't find it no matter what I do, I even lie and say that my
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I can't seem to find mine no matter what I do and I am afraid to search with my fingers cause I have long fake nails and don't wanna hurt myself, I feel so embarrassed I can't find it no matter what I do, I even lie and say that my partner has found it when they didn't any advice for this poor gal???
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04/02/2013
I read the G-spot book by Deborah Sundahl and I liked it a lot.
04/02/2013
Here's another similar thread:
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My first advice would be never lie to your partner. If you tell the truth, then you and he can do something to make it better, but if you lie, he will think everything's fine and no progress will be made. I've been there - long first marriage where my needs weren't met because I didn't speak up. Now in my long 2nd marriage, my hubby and I have always discussed our sex life and it is SO much better this way! So come clean to him and work together to find that spot, and you will both be rewarded, trust me.
Good luck and have fun.
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My first advice would be never lie to your partner. If you tell the truth, then you and he can do something to make it better, but if you lie, he will think everything's fine and no progress will be made. I've been there - long first marriage where my needs weren't met because I didn't speak up. Now in my long 2nd marriage, my hubby and I have always discussed our sex life and it is SO much better this way! So come clean to him and work together to find that spot, and you will both be rewarded, trust me.
Good luck and have fun.
04/02/2013
Mine is very easy to find, I've never had a problem, but a lot of people who've had trouble swear by glass toys. A bulbous head with a curve combined with the firmness of glass makes it pretty easy to stimulate a stubborn g-spot.
04/02/2013
Thank you all for the responses it gives this poor girl hope of finding that darn g spot!
04/04/2013
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