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Have you squirted before? Did it take you a while to get the right technique?

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Contributor: Trashley Trashley
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
I think the closest I have come to squirting is with the Pure Wand. I just need to be more patient and allow it to happen. It feels like I am about to wet the bed, so I always stop.

Perhaps if I get a Liberator Throe I will be able to just ... more
I've heard a lot of crazy stuff about the Pure Wand! Perhaps I should look into it...
10/23/2010
Contributor: KestrelLoves KestrelLoves
I've never squirted during solo play, or orgasm at all for that matter. I squirt fairly consistently during rough anal sex - and it has to be with a partner, not a toy. There seems to be a huge mental component to it, for me at least. Its not quite across the room, but is pretty forceful!
10/29/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I have tried and tried but cant. I read that you need to be totally relaxed and unfortunately I tense everything.
Is being totally relaxed part of the trick????
10/31/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
I have squirted before but it wasn't much and it's only happened a couple times. I've been really interested in mastering the technique so I've been reading up on it. I need to use my SmartBalls more to get my PC muscles in better shape and drink more water.

If anyone has any tips on using the smooth end of the Fun Wand for squirting, I would really appreciate the input! I just got one and it gives me really intense orgasms, and until I can get the Pure Wand, I think it's my best option for squirting!
10/31/2010
Contributor: kermi91 kermi91
I never have but I've dated a lot of women who do...let me just say, the first time it happen, scared the hell out of me! I thought she urinated on me! Eventually she explained that she has a habit of squirting! Since then I'm kind of proud when I can make a woman do it.
11/11/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Not here
I have squirted before but it wasn't much and it's only happened a couple times. I've been really interested in mastering the technique so I've been reading up on it. I need to use my SmartBalls more to get my PC muscles in better ... more
I think Carrie Ann or Teusday could help you out!
11/11/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Shellz31
I have tried and tried but cant. I read that you need to be totally relaxed and unfortunately I tense everything.
Is being totally relaxed part of the trick????
I think that when you are learning you have to relax in the sense of not fretting about it, letting it happen, being at ease about it.

When I squirt my body tenses up like crazy, I squeel and I continually grab onto the sheets (or my mans arms, anything I can basiclly) for leverage. I have to relax my mind to let it happen but my muscles can be tense.

Hope that helps...it might not be the same for everyone though.
11/11/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Not here
I have squirted before but it wasn't much and it's only happened a couple times. I've been really interested in mastering the technique so I've been reading up on it. I need to use my SmartBalls more to get my PC muscles in better ... more
You've had G-spot orgasms with the Fun Wand, but you haven't squirted except for a few times? I'm wondering if you're worrying about peeing. Fear of that will prevent you from squirting. You could try either having lots of towels under you or sitting on the edge of a bathtub so you don't have to worry about that. Also, concentrating on the sensations your feeling helps too.

I always keep fingers pressing on my clitoris (not stroking, just pressing on it) and the palm of that hand on pressing or just resting on my lower abdomen. This might be just a habit, but I think it helps. And its nice to feel the slight swelling under my palm right before orgasm. I've noticed that in videos of women squirting, when another person is stimulating the squirter, they very often have a hand pressing on the squirter's abdomen.
11/11/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
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Originally posted by Tuesday
You've had G-spot orgasms with the Fun Wand, but you haven't squirted except for a few times? I'm wondering if you're worrying about peeing. Fear of that will prevent you from squirting. You could try either having lots of towels ... more
Thank you, Tuesday! I do try to relax and not worry about having to pee, but I'm sure it is still in the back of my head. I will try the tips you've given me, I really appreciate it!
11/11/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
I have squirted. With the right amount of pressure on my g-spot all I need is clitoral stimulation and I squirt. It happens every time, although in different amounts. This is why I'm more interested in g-spot dildos than insertable vibrators. I can tell when I'm reaching a g-spot orgasm because I get these intense waves of tingles starting in my head. I know it sounds weird, but I don't know how else to describe it. Does this happen to anyone else?
11/11/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Not here
Thank you, Tuesday! I do try to relax and not worry about having to pee, but I'm sure it is still in the back of my head. I will try the tips you've given me, I really appreciate it!
I forgot one other thing. It helps a LOT if you've had some clitoral stimulation first. Or even wait until you've had a clitoral orgasm first, then start working for a G-spot orgasm. Then you'll be engorged and extra sensitive inside.
11/11/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Bunnycups
I have squirted. With the right amount of pressure on my g-spot all I need is clitoral stimulation and I squirt. It happens every time, although in different amounts. This is why I'm more interested in g-spot dildos than insertable vibrators. ... more
Yes - what you describe is a lot like the way my wife works - she loves g-spot dildos like the Pure Wand & Alumina Flow.

However, I must say that she has recently started to enjoy g-spot vibes combined with a clit vibe. Her favorite g-spot vibes are SinFive Vuali & Akmeo.
11/11/2010
Contributor: leela leela
I'm curious if people have certain positions that work better for them? The couple times it's happened for me, I was up on my knees, and leaning backwards as a partner stimulated me with his fingers.
11/11/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I forgot one other thing. It helps a LOT if you've had some clitoral stimulation first. Or even wait until you've had a clitoral orgasm first, then start working for a G-spot orgasm. Then you'll be engorged and extra sensitive inside.
Awesome! Thank you again, I will report back on this thread if I have any luck
11/12/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Not here
Awesome! Thank you again, I will report back on this thread if I have any luck
Pee first and stop worrying about it! I need a clitoral orgasm first and then work on my g spot which is not really a spot but an area. The Fun Wand should work but it is less heavy then the Pure Wand.
The first time I squirted, I was on my back using my Pure Wand but now I can squirt in different positions but I have to be comfortable, relaxed and really turned on from a clitoral orgasm. Do I squirt every time? No, but I love it when it happens. During sex, I have squirted in the dogie position but also cowgirl where I can control the tempo; awesome!
Good luck!!!
11/12/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I came so close tonight to squirting. I was wearing my Pure Plug Large and thrusting with a vibe and this FEELING came over me. It was like a part of my body was being sucked out and replaced with sparks. I then thought OMG I MIGHT SQUIRT and the feeling escaped me, probably because I acknowledged its existence.
11/12/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I would love to squirt more often. When I "squirt" it's more like a gushing, and doesn't spray across the room like I have seen in videos. I mean, that's crazy shit! I *NEED* to learn how to do that! LOL

I squirt during slowly built up clitoral orgasms, and are most often caused by edging. It just builds and builds and then *whoooosh* Good times.
11/12/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Liz2
Pee first and stop worrying about it! I need a clitoral orgasm first and then work on my g spot which is not really a spot but an area. The Fun Wand should work but it is less heavy then the Pure Wand.
The first time I squirted, I was on my back ... more
For those that are interested - this is the formula that works for my wife as well. Once you have the Pure Wand induced '1st gush' it'll start happening more often.
11/12/2010
Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
-Add Pure Wand to my wish list- Check!

I've always wanted to, and tried quite a bit, but I've never been able to. Sometimes, when I orgasm and I'm especially turned on, I will feel something that feels like a gush of fluid down there, but it really feels like much more than what actually comes out =( I really wish I could squirt, particularly in the way girls in porn do (even tho i'm sure it's very messy), because my husband is really turned on by that. I feel kind of disappointed in myself that I am not able to provide for him what the girls who squirt in porn can do..
11/12/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I have squirted many times. I cannot make myself squirt, but my partner can. It depends on the angle and position of his hands/fingers and the type of toys he uses on me.
11/12/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
The pure wand was made for this lol ok maybe not but it certainly is the only toy that has ever gotten me to squirt both vaginal and anal. Something about that lovely lil piece of metal.

Toys don't usually do it for me either but the pure wand...wow. It's not something you can rush just gotta go with how your body feels. Don't get caught up in what's happening just let go. And yeah use towels, blanket something like that so you don't have that concern floating around in your head.
11/12/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
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Originally posted by Tuesday
It isn't. I think that's a myth. I started a poll a few weeks ago about relative strength of clitoral vs G-spot orgasms. For the majority, G-spot orgasms are weaker.

Here's a link to that poll. ... more
thank you. very interesting.
11/13/2010
Contributor: m4rshm3ll0z m4rshm3ll0z
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Originally posted by Waterfall
Just wondering how many females have squirted and whether or not it took them a while to get the right technique. I have tried different ways and have not yet been successful, but I just figured it might take me a bit to learn...
I believe that someone once told me that they had to stimulate both their clit and their g-spot.
11/21/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I have "squirted" a few times where fluid actually shot out or where I have soaked the bed and my husband, but for the most part I am "juicy" where it is not a lot of fluid but there is a definite increase.
11/22/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Liz2
Pee first and stop worrying about it! I need a clitoral orgasm first and then work on my g spot which is not really a spot but an area. The Fun Wand should work but it is less heavy then the Pure Wand.
The first time I squirted, I was on my back ... more
I squirted once in cowgirl but haven't managed to do it again bcs my IUD irritates me mans cock in this position but I have been able in other positions also.
11/25/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
I'm working on it but I haven't had any success so far.
11/25/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by Waterfall
Just wondering how many females have squirted and whether or not it took them a while to get the right technique. I have tried different ways and have not yet been successful, but I just figured it might take me a bit to learn...
Never have...would love to at least once!
11/30/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I squirted once in cowgirl but haven't managed to do it again bcs my IUD irritates me mans cock in this position but I have been able in other positions also.
I now have an IUD as well. (3mos) My b/f hasn't mentioned any discomfort since I got my IUD but I have to be very aroused and wet. I usually need a clitoral orgasm prior to penetration regardless of position. I guess my wetness and lube helps alleviate any discomfort to my b/f's cock.
11/30/2010
Contributor: Porfiriato Porfiriato
I'd love to be able to do this, I'll have to start working on it
11/30/2010
Contributor: Mocha98 Mocha98
I just recently developed this technique! I started it on my own, and then my lover (who is a guitar player) fingered me! WOW! Now we use puppy pads on the bed because it is a watery mess everytime we have sex! It is great!
11/30/2010