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Did Sundahl's "Female Ejaculation & The G-Spot" cause your first squirting experience?

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Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I learned a lot from this book! I think it's the best one of its kind, and there are quite a few G-spot "how-to" guides out there that have, in the past, disheartened me and made me feel like an impotent freak.

This was the one for me. How about you ladies? Or was it another book/DVD/resource? I am really curious now regarding what's out there.

Did this one do it? If not, if you feel comfortable please list what did the trick (or what is in process of helping you along).
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
1  (2%)
No
43  (90%)
Another resource (please list if you wish!)
4  (8%)
Total votes: 48
Poll is closed
03/13/2011
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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I got the book but I already knew how to squirt. I just wanted additional advice. I wanted to learn to squirt without orgasm.

I have read the advice, and tried to give it to my guy so he could make me squirt while fingering me.
03/13/2011
Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I totally loved when I figured out the squirting sans orgasm. I was kind of shocked because it happened with no effort, but I couldn't do it again and this book was recommended to me.


Ugh, wish the partner would read more of my sex books, but he thinks I'm a little sex-crazed (though he approves of EF as an outlet, go figure). Maybe I am too technical at times. Ah well.

Never squirted from fingering. I'm too sensitive to nails, even if they're filed down or PROFESSIONALLY MANICURED, for crissake.
03/14/2011
Contributor: *Huxley* *Huxley*
Nothing has worked thus far. I really think you need to figure out what works for you by exploring in your won way, Vs what a book *thinks* will work for you.
Just my opinion.
03/16/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I haven't read the book and I've squirted, so no.
04/21/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
No, I've never read the book and I have squirted. I agree with Huxley, it's important to figure out what works for you. I guess you can get some ideas from reading, but not everything works for every woman. It's so individual.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife never read the book - or any how-to sex book at all. I read about it through various online sources and figured out how to get her to gush. She's eternally grateful to me for teaching her. As a teacher - she appreciates teaching skills!
05/26/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
I haven't read this book, so no I guess but I can occasionally squirt. Annoyingly, I can't make myself squirt but my partner seems to have the magic touch.
05/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by (Re)tired Stripper
I learned a lot from this book! I think it's the best one of its kind, and there are quite a few G-spot "how-to" guides out there that have, in the past, disheartened me and made me feel like an impotent freak.

This was the one ... more
I haven't read that book yet.

My Man introduced me to my G Spot many years ago, when I was still a teen. I had NO idea what it was then.

I don't squirt. I think I used to (and once in a great while he kind of pulls his face away and I think I may have a little) I tend to dribble. Unfortunately, I had my Glands of Bartholin removed many years ago, during a urinary/genital surgery and I haven't been able to really squirt since then.

I will look into this book, though.
05/26/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I have read books on the G-Spot, but they were all borrowed from friends. So I really don't remember the names. I remember the name of the best one, which was called "The Sacred Spot". It was really good.

I had already known about the G-Spot. I've been squirting since I was just a teen. I remember how scared I was when I would spray/gush white liquid while my fiance (boyfriend at the time) would finger me. However, I never knew the G-Spot was the cause of that until my senior year in high school.

Books did help a little more because they taught my fiance and I how to give myself intense pressure, without over-doing it. Over-doing the G-Spot is probably one of the easiest things to do.
05/26/2011
Contributor: NibbleMyGarter NibbleMyGarter
I've always been fascinated with squirting. My ex-girlfriend used to just GUSH. I have never squirted before and the first time she did I honestly thought she had peed (not that I would have cared because I knew she couldn't help it but she was such a flippin' neat freak I thought "Oh great. Now we're gonna have to stop to change the fuckin' sheets.")

I have never been able to find my g-spot on my own. I think my husband hits it sometimes during intercourse. Occasionally I'm able to orgasm in missionary position and it's SO much more intense than when he goes down on me or uses toys on me; so I'm thinking he's hitting my g-spot in those situations but I'm not sure.

I'm completely ignorant on the mechanics of squirting...how does it happen? What is it? Can all women do it? And, most importantly...WHAT does it FEEL like!!?!?!?!
05/27/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by (Re)tired Stripper
I learned a lot from this book! I think it's the best one of its kind, and there are quite a few G-spot "how-to" guides out there that have, in the past, disheartened me and made me feel like an impotent freak.

This was the one ... more
i read a lot of sex stuff from planned parenthood and self exploration
06/02/2011
Contributor: boobookittyfuk boobookittyfuk
I am still trying to find something that works. I want to squirt for.my guy so bad.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
I learned how to squirt on my own, it just happened.
07/20/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
My fiance was determined, and extremely helpful. That's how I learned to squirt.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
I have not read the book but i found this site useful on squirting - link
12/17/2011
Contributor: Lolitalia Lolitalia
I saw a video on it.
01/14/2012
Contributor: Various Various
I have yet to achieve squirting, but I'm going to keep trying until I do!
04/03/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I unfortunately haven't squirted yet.
04/04/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Cause? No but I do think it helped me along the way
04/26/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by (Re)tired Stripper
I learned a lot from this book! I think it's the best one of its kind, and there are quite a few G-spot "how-to" guides out there that have, in the past, disheartened me and made me feel like an impotent freak.

This was the one ... more
I'd really love to read it. I'm in the process of getting mine to work in a way that doesn't make me feel uncomfortable.
05/26/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I'm reading the book and it has been helpful so far. I haven't squirted yet, but I think I *may* have trickled out a gush of liquid (maybe my PC muscles aren't strong enough to project it?). I think I just need to push past the mental barrier of the need-to-pee feeling.
05/29/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by (Re)tired Stripper
I learned a lot from this book! I think it's the best one of its kind, and there are quite a few G-spot "how-to" guides out there that have, in the past, disheartened me and made me feel like an impotent freak.

This was the one ... more
I haven't had a squirting experience and honestly don't care to. I am aware of my g-spot though!
06/06/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Never used any resources in regards to squirting. Sometimes I do it, but I don't think it really contributes anything to the experience. I don't really care about it one way or the other.
05/19/2013
Contributor: mdnght mdnght
First time I squirted was the first time I had an orgasm! I was young, so I had no idea what had happened. And it was all from clit stimulation too... But nowadays I need to get some g-spot play in too, or I don't squirt.
05/19/2013
Contributor: Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
Quote:
Originally posted by (Re)tired Stripper
I learned a lot from this book! I think it's the best one of its kind, and there are quite a few G-spot "how-to" guides out there that have, in the past, disheartened me and made me feel like an impotent freak.

This was the one ... more
I thought that I could squirt from a feeling I had after some rough sex with my partner. I bought the Amethyst glass G-spot dildo and figured out quite quickly how to make myself squirt.

Sadly, my boyfriend hasn't been able to make me squirt recently from vaginal sex. :/
05/19/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
No, I've never heard of it. I'll look into it though (I can't squirt).
06/02/2013