Almost squirted in a new position but not quite....help!

Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Alright so here's the deal.

The other night my partner and I were having a wonderful sexual time and we started to do some doggystyle. I was very turned on.

Usually, I only squirt when laying on my back with my hips elevated due to a pillow being placed beneath my buttox. But in the doggystyle position I could feel the build up I usually feel when I am about to squirt but it was a little different.

Everytime I came close to squirting I didn't bcs I was so unused to being in this new position for squirting that I was afraid that I was going to pee. My partner really didnt care if it was squirt or pee he was so turned on he could hardly contain himself. And besides I had my throe beneath me so I shouldnt have been so fearful.

So my question is: Have other women experienced this and how did you over come this?

Men can also answer especially if they have advice on things they did that their partner had found helpful.
01/26/2010
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Contributor: Phallicity Phallicity
My wife squirts more easily in this position. It's pretty rare that I make her squirt with sex, but I've gotten pretty adept at doing it with my hands. The thing about that position is it helps relax your muscles, making it easier to squirt. I plan to write a post on my blog about this experience soon, kind of an embellished how-to...

The biggest thing is you have to get over the "I've gotta pee!" thing. It's completely natural. If you're concerned about it, take a potty break before your romp, but that sensation is still going to be there when you get down to g-spotting.

The position is particularly nice for massaging the g-spot with your fingers. Keep fingers clean and nails trimmed and filed. You can either slowly curve your fingers and massage, slide, stroke circles.. Only you and your partner know what you like. I found that curving my fingers so as to apply pressure to that spot and thrusting in and out like that got the most enjoyable response.

Sometimes things accidentally happen during sex that we don't want. Whether it's pee, poo, a queef, or a fart. The key is to shrug it off and make light of it and not to make your partner feel awkward for any accidents. I must stress, however, that ejaculate fluid is *not* pee.. so you really have nothing to worry about.

Good luck!
01/26/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Phallicity
My wife squirts more easily in this position. It's pretty rare that I make her squirt with sex, but I've gotten pretty adept at doing it with my hands. The thing about that position is it helps relax your muscles, making it easier to squirt. ... more
I find being on my back is my favorite position to ejaculate esp. during masturbation. I have squirted during doggie with my b/f, but very infrequently but also feel I want to but don't. The pressure on my g spot just isn't the same as being on my back.
Try masturbating in the doggie position with a decent g spot toy. You will be surprised and you are not peeing. I think the apprehension of pee shuts down your response.
Enjoy!!
01/26/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
I find being on my back is my favorite position to ejaculate esp. during masturbation. I have squirted during doggie with my b/f, but very infrequently but also feel I want to but don't. The pressure on my g spot just isn't the same as being ... more
Thats exactly what I am talking about. I will try masturbating that way to get over it. I squirt loads on my back with me man but its hard for me to do it doggy style sicne the pressure build up is not the same. I really want o do it since last time I almost squirt in this new position and my man was so turned on.

Thanks Liz2
01/26/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Phallicity
My wife squirts more easily in this position. It's pretty rare that I make her squirt with sex, but I've gotten pretty adept at doing it with my hands. The thing about that position is it helps relax your muscles, making it easier to squirt. ... more
Thanks for the advice Phallicity.

I am a seasoned squirter but I am still learning, so alot of what you have mentionned is not new to me but thanks for posting it though because it can be helpful for those who arent new to this and read this post. Greatly appreciated.
01/26/2010