Afraid to squirt.

Contributor: SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I've been working on my G-spot lately and although I am yet to have a G-spot orgasm I feel that I am quite close to archiving it. The thing is: I don't want to turn into a squirter. I know that it sounds ridiculous, because most of you guys love it so much, but I am very OCD and self-conscious when it comes to sex. Here is the question to all the squirting girls. Can you somehow control it?
04/18/2013
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Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I'm the total opposite...I wish I could squirt like a porn star! He has told me if I could, he would love to have me squirt all over his face! I'll continue to work on it, I really want to fulfill his fantasy!!!
04/19/2013
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
In my experience...

No, I can't really control it. Gradually, as the years have gone by since I started squirting, it happens more and more and I have less control.

The only way to really control it is to intentionally refrain from g-spot orgasms -- and even that doesn't always work.

However, that being said, I wouldn't trade it. I feel kind of short changed if I don't have a squirting orgasm these day. They're so much more intense for me.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
The only way I can have a squirting orgasm as of right now is by using my Hitachi on my clitoris with no other stimulation. If I don't use the Hitachi, chances are I won't squirt. Beyond that there is no controlling it, I have, a time or two had a squirting orgasm while being on top during sex.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by SourAppleMartini
I've been working on my G-spot lately and although I am yet to have a G-spot orgasm I feel that I am quite close to archiving it. The thing is: I don't want to turn into a squirter. I know that it sounds ridiculous, because most of you guys ... more
It's something we focus on when we want it to happen. It's a technique for us. With regard to most intercourse episodes, it does not happen, or it's not like the flood gates open.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Interesting question - my wife squirts and enjoys it. My advice is to 'get over it'. By OCD I assume cleanliness is a big concern for you. If that is the issue just make sure to have a mattress cover. For my wife and I the amount of fluid is not as copious are porn. A typical bath towel would suffice - but we use a Liberator Throe because it's large and convenient.

Relax and enjoy!
04/19/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I squirt from clitoral stimulation and G-Spot stimulation as well. I love it and so does my partner. I don't really have control over it but when I am with someone who I know isn't into the whole squirting thing I just tighten my muscles like you would if you were stopping a stream of urine. I can hold out doing that but not long. Luckily my current partner could care less if we are sleeping in an ocean


I use to be self conscience over the whole thing but now I let it flow. Like Gunsmoke said towels or a mattress pad helps with this.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Hazeleyes2012 Hazeleyes2012
Not a squirter ...
04/19/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I can't make myself squirt but others can make me.
04/19/2013
Contributor: nickeyt nickeyt
never have
04/19/2013
Contributor: CarmenCaligula CarmenCaligula
Quote:
Originally posted by SourAppleMartini
I've been working on my G-spot lately and although I am yet to have a G-spot orgasm I feel that I am quite close to archiving it. The thing is: I don't want to turn into a squirter. I know that it sounds ridiculous, because most of you guys ... more
You could try to stop it but I've heard it feels really really freaking good to squirt. If you're worried about messes, just jerk off in the bath tub or keep a towel underneath yourself during sex. To be honest with you, it makes me sad to think that a woman would want to AVOID squirting when I can't do it at all. If you're that worried about it, though, you'll just have to stop before it happens! I don't think it's something anyone has any control over.
04/19/2013
Contributor: doowop doowop
I can control it, but I usually choose not to. Intense g-spot stimulation kinda forces a squirting orgasm out of me and self control becomes almost impossible. But usually I can control it if I wanted to.
04/22/2013