A question about G-spot orgasms

Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I'm wondering how G-spot orgasms are for other women. For myself, they're weaker than clitoral orgasms and stop as soon as G-spot stimulation ends. But I've seen videos where the orgasm seems to go on for a very long time after the toy is removed.

So here's my ultra-scientific research question. Voting is private.

How are G-spot orgasms for you on average?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
much stronger than clitoral
18
somewhat stronger than clitoral
16
same strength as clitoral
5
somewhat weaker than clitoral
15
much weaker than clitoral
27
they stop as soon as stimulation is removed
21
they continue a little longer after stimulation is removed
42
they continue for quite a while after stimulation is removed
7
other, elaborate in comments
20
Total votes: 171 (110 voters)
Poll is closed
09/24/2010
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Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Aw I haven't had a G-spot orgasm before. I'm still working on it. But I greatly look forward to it!
09/24/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
Aw I haven't had a G-spot orgasm before. I'm still working on it. But I greatly look forward to it!
I considered putting that in as an option. Keep working on it. It can happen even if its not happening now for you.
09/24/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Mine are just as strong as clitoral, but very different. They're hard to even compare for me because one is so much deeper than the other. They also last a little beyond stimulation for me while clitoral will stop as soon as I take away the toy/penis/hand.
09/24/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Mine are just as strong as clitoral, but very different. They're hard to even compare for me because one is so much deeper than the other. They also last a little beyond stimulation for me while clitoral will stop as soon as I take away the ... more
You mean the G-spot orgasm is deeper?
09/24/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
You mean the G-spot orgasm is deeper?
Yes. It's a very different feeling for me, it seems to radiate further through my body.
09/24/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
G Spot alone is much weaker and I don't get "released" like I do from Clit orgasms or blended Os. If I do get a blended O, which means I have G Spot stim as well as strong clit stim, they go on forever. Lately, although it's been harder to Come, (although the last week or so, it's been fairly good, (Crossed fingers) they do tend to last longer. I don't know if this is part of peri-menopause, or because I am exercising my PC muscles with Kegals and my Smart Balls, or just something else.
09/24/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I checked other because my comments are 2nd hand. For my wife a clitoral orgasm is sharp and strong. I must stop stimulating her as soon as it happens.

She describes her g-spot orgasms as deeper and longer lasting and I can keep them going for multiple waves with continued stimulation.

She says that at any given point in time - one maybe 'stronger' than the other. She prefers to say they are just different - not one better or stronger than the other.

Then there are blended orgasms - they also vary widely. Sometimes I can keep them going for a long time with both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. At other times I have to stop clitoral stimulation but will continue g-spot stimulation. Honestly it's all over the map - I just have to follow her lead. I default to continued stimulation and she's ask me to stop when she can't take it any more.

In any case the combinations are so varied that generalizations are difficult.

To me the point is to keep trying new things - that's how you learn to push the envelope forward into new territory - new experiences - new orgasmic possibilities.
09/24/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Yes. It's a very different feeling for me, it seems to radiate further through my body.
I agree with ToriR. A g spot orgasm radiates from within my body and is not from a pin point spot unlike a clitoral orgasm. But to have a g spot orgasm, I usually need a clitoral orgasm first. For me, I would define this as kinda like a mini-orgasm followed by a g spot (deep) orgasm(sometimes). Both orgasms can be very intense and satisfying. During sex, a g spot orgasm is more likely for me if I use a vibe on my clit while my partner is thrusting. Ejaculating is a bonus...
09/24/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I want one someday, never had one, so sadly I can't contribute to your research.
09/25/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I chose other because really it just depends. Most times they are weaker and they only last as long as there is stimulation. Sometimes though they are far more intense and will continue on a lesser level for a bit after stimulation has been removed.

Same goes for my clitoral orgasms too though, sometimes they're not very strong, sometimes they're incredibly strong. Sometimes the pulsating stops as soon as stimulation is removed but with clitoral orgasms most times there will be residual pulsating even afterwards.
09/25/2010
Contributor: Faydreh Faydreh
I'm going to choose other, because I'm strongly questioning my ability to even -have- a G Spot orgasm. I've ejaculated once at random while playing by myself, and it was a strong, throbbing/wave, several minute one, but I've yet to ever have an orgasm like it before or after. Not only that, the vibrator and wand that I've tried now, both of which are specifically for g-spot stimuli don't... seem to do anything for me, which makes me all kinds of sad inside.
09/27/2010
Contributor: [[M@R!3]] [[M@R!3]]
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
Aw I haven't had a G-spot orgasm before. I'm still working on it. But I greatly look forward to it!
I also haven't found it, I feel like I will never be able to
10/12/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by [[M@R!3]]
I also haven't found it, I feel like I will never be able to
You'll be able sweety! I'll lend you my book on the g-spot and squirting. You have to find the time to read it! It has great techniques!
10/12/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have a combination of clitoral/g-spot orgasms most and they tend to last a little while longer after stimulation has stopped. Often times when they are quite powerful I lose control of my body and it just quivers and shakes uncontrolably.

The combiation orgasms are more satisfying to me than clitoral orgasms which are more local and short in length. They are both good but I prefer the combined ones.
10/12/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I have a combination of clitoral/g-spot orgasms most and they tend to last a little while longer after stimulation has stopped. Often times when they are quite powerful I lose control of my body and it just quivers and shakes ... more
Did you have to learn how to have orgasms where you shake and lose control or did it happen naturally?
10/13/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Haven't had one yet.
10/13/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Looks like you have a lot of people in the same boat! I had my first toy g-spot orgasm with an EF product and it was amazing! Very different experience, but quite delightful all the same.
10/23/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
Sometimes stronger, sometimes weaker. Seeing as there's a lot of variety in the strength and duration of clitoral orgasms, I'm not really surprised that there's just as much variety in the g-spot ones. In my personal experience, the blended ones go longer than anything, though.
11/09/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
Sometimes stronger, sometimes weaker. Seeing as there's a lot of variety in the strength and duration of clitoral orgasms, I'm not really surprised that there's just as much variety in the g-spot ones. In my personal experience, the ... more
Have to second this sentiment - my wife is 'addicted' to blended orgasms. She loves the g-spot types but add a clit vibe to 'power' her through long & strong blended orgasms.
11/10/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
With me clitoral orgasms alone are very strong almost violent and last a good while before my body stops trembling. A g-spot orgasm is like impact waves and can be controlled and extended to last longer. When I have combined orgasms they are less intense at first. I'll usually have 3 or 4 before they build up til I do reach the same body wrenching force as a clitoral orgasm alone. Even after that if hubby outlasts I'm able to keep going but not with direct clit stimulation and it usually ends in a wavy almost tender kinda finish.
11/10/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i dont have gspots orgasms very often but when i do, they sometime feel slightly stronger than my clitoral orgasms
11/13/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
Did you have to learn how to have orgasms where you shake and lose control or did it happen naturally?
They happenned naturally. I have them only when I have really strong orgasms, and especially when I am with my partner. I didnt think anyone convulsed the way I did until I saw someone do it in porn.
11/13/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
I'm wondering how G-spot orgasms are for other women. For myself, they're weaker than clitoral orgasms and stop as soon as G-spot stimulation ends. But I've seen videos where the orgasm seems to go on for a very long time after the toy is ... more
I find them to be stronger...
11/30/2010
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
For me a G-spot orgasm is much stronger than a clitoral-alone orgasm, and it last a little longer after stimulation has been removed. An amazing experience, to be sure.
11/30/2010
Contributor: Hypnotic Hypnotic
Quote:
Originally posted by Darling Jen
Aw I haven't had a G-spot orgasm before. I'm still working on it. But I greatly look forward to it!
I haven't had one either. But reading everyones posts has me looking forward to my next playtime! Not giving up!
12/04/2010
Contributor: joja joja
Both types of orgasms vary in intensity a lot for me, but I'd say g-spot orgasms have more potential. Though they are less pinpoint than clitoral orgasms, they can really rock my whole body. It's very intense.
12/04/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I love g-spot orgasms without help from clit stimulation. Mine are somewhat more powerful than just clit orgasms and it continues a little longer after stimulation has stopped.
Even though they are slightly more powerful, I seem to recover a little quicker than I do from clit orgasms.
12/04/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I still haven't had a g-spot orgasm either!
12/07/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
with g-spot orgasms, i know that i can just keep going and going
12/19/2010