Women have to scream, Men have to enjoy that. Is it true?

Contributor: chibi1091 chibi1091
I think it varies between women and some women show enjoyment in that way.
01/10/2012
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
I voted "other" because while not every woman has pain during sex and not every woman enjoys it, some do. I experience pain during sex and have learned to like it. I can't really imagine sex without it in some form or another.

Also: I've never "screamed". I hardly ever actually moan. It's usually just soft little whimper-y noises. Just personal experience though.
01/29/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
I don't scream in bed, and I definitely don't enjoy Hentai because it's mostly forced/coerced.
01/30/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
i agree
02/05/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I think it may be a combination of many different factors including a little S&M.
02/05/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I never really found the stereotype of a screamer very attractive...
Until I discovered that my GF does it. If she does it, I love it because it's HER.
02/05/2012
Contributor: SaraU29 SaraU29
If you're not vocal during sex, are you Honestly getting it just the way you need it?
02/11/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
Suffer no... scream yes - or just plead for them to cum in, on or for me loudly. Husband seems to enjoy very much as do others
02/11/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
Hard to decipher !!

It is sooo simple and direct question. here it is again:

Do women always show fake or real pain feelings through sexual intercourse?

Yes I know that at first time in woman sex life she feels actualy pain ... more
Many people express sexual arousal and orgasm by noises and facial expressions that could be interpreted as looking similar to "pain" I guess. But, unless you're talking about BDSM activities, regular sex should not be and isn't painful for women, unless they have an infection or something.

I scream during sex, but it isn't from pain, it's from pleasure. I NEVER fake it, ever. It just feels good enough to scream, moan, whine and whimper at times.

I didn't feel physical pain the first time I had sexual intercourse, not at all. My Man and I had done a lot of sexual work first, he helped my body get used to sexual touching and stretching so by the time we had intercourse (after about a month of play) I didn't feel any pain at all, nor did I bleed. I certainly had no psychological pain whatsoever, because I knew what we were doing was right, good and good for us. I know few women or men who feel "psychological pain" with sex unless they were raised very repressed and internalized this repression. I rejected the sexual repression I was raised with and was able to enjoy sex from the first moment.

Physical ecstasy can look like pain but they are not the same in all people. There are people who like to add strong physical sensations to sex, but even if they do, good sex isn't painful for women.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
It is FANTASY. NOT reality. If I were making love to a woman and she even APPEARED to have ANY discomfort, I would IMMEDIATELY stop and find out what was wrong. If we are not both having GREAT pleasure, then something is WRONG. Oh...and neither of us "screams", although when she gives me a "P"
spot orgasm, with oral and her talented finger, I must say I come as close to screaming as it gets...and it "AIN'T pain".
02/22/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
Oh...I MUST add something here. I dated a young lady of Japanese origin once. She actually was BORN there...came to the USA as a young lady of about 10. SHE found that whole "Eastern Hentai" stuff repulsive, as did her dad, a doctor. Her parents were about the most loving, caring couple you could ever want to meet, and I BET sex was not about "suffering" for sure, at their house. Her grandparents had just celebrated their 60th anniversary when we dated years ago. They were still the "hold hands" kind of lovers you HOPE to be in old age!!!! (and that in a culture which does not show a lot of open affection)!!!!!
02/22/2012
Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
This is just weird. Never heard of this.
02/23/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
im a lil lost as to teh quetsion personally i love when it hurts so if its painful i love it
02/23/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
A lot of women act, but if she's really in pain and isn't enjoying it, you should stop immediately.
02/26/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by dks210
A lot of women act, but if she's really in pain and isn't enjoying it, you should stop immediately.
Absolutely agree, if enjoyment by both partners isn't there, something's wrong.
02/26/2012
Contributor: yeoshua yeoshua
I don't know about "suffering" during sexual intercourse, but both of us enjoy hearing the other enjoying, or at least, having sex. Moaning, breathing and sexy/dirty talk is a turn on. If a partner is "acting" its fine with me...as long as she is enjoying herself!

I agree with dks210 and RonLee.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Moein Moein
Quote:
Originally posted by dks210
A lot of women act, but if she's really in pain and isn't enjoying it, you should stop immediately.
Ok, this is a good point to stop on.

Does -for woman- the ((((pleasure)))) of intercourse compined with pain? Or it is before or after? I main the orgasm moment.
02/27/2012
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
I can be a bit of a screamer, but never thought of it as faking pain, and the sounds themselves sound very different from pain-sounds. The only real similarity is the volume.
02/28/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
Ok, this is a good point to stop on.

Does -for woman- the ((((pleasure)))) of intercourse compined with pain? Or it is before or after? I main the orgasm moment.
For a woman (at least for me) orgasm doesn't hurt. To an observer, it may look like I'm in pain, I pant, I grab the sheets, my body stiffens and then thrashes, I scream (or stifle a scream if the kids are awake) or even bite the pillow. I often shake and my teeth chatter after a good orgasm. My husband says I've sometimes tried to push him away and even say, "NO!" but I think it's just because it's so freaking intense. It may look like pain, but it isn't.

It feels better than anything in the world.
02/28/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
I am a Woman. No, we just acting to enjoy Maso feeling.
02/29/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
Screams from displeasure -nope
02/29/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
i think screaming in pain is a no-go, but i really really like it when my wife gets really loud...it usually happens only when were not around the kids, but even with them around she still gets pretty loud
03/01/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I can be loud or quiet, depends on what's going on and if anyone else is within earshot (then I try to be quiet). Honestly though, I think a lot of the screaming and little weird noises and such are acting. I really hate a lot of the noises women in porn make because most of it is just acting and annoying (especially the squeaky "baby" noises.... just weird and ick). I've actually been completely turned off while watching a porn with those noises.
03/09/2012
Contributor: thebest thebest
idk
03/11/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
okay well hentai is NEVER EVER a good way to judge reality. porn exists because that's what the real world is NOT like

and no, there is absolutely no reason a woman should suffer when they have sex, and i don't think a guy would like it unless it was a bdsm thing
03/20/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
I scream/moan out of pleasure, not pain... and he enjoys every noise I make.
03/21/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
i think its annoying.
04/16/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
I dont' know but I know that I don't scream I just moan loudly
05/15/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I think in Hentai movies, the majority of those women are not entering into consensual sex so they scream a lot. At least the few dozen I've seen are like that.
05/20/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
In Hentai movies, eastern traditions show us Women suffer and scream at sexual intercourse, and their faces show painfull failings. On other side Men enjoy it.

What do say about that? Is it a nature thing? Or it is just a women acting things ... more
just acting but some times it can be painful
07/04/2012