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What is the silliest sex myth you actually believed?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
My hubby had "learned" as a teen, some how, some way, that "Asian girls cannot do anal, since they are more tight back there". He totally believed it.

Not until he had an Asian friend in college (whose girlfriend was also fully Japanese, a transfer student), describing all his anal antics with her, did he learn that his idea was a total myth! Where do such things start?
09/05/2013
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I can honestly say that I have never believed a single sex myth. I was always the kid who was scoping out the books we shouldn't be reading or finding out the truth by reading my mother's copy of the "Joy of Sex". There was also a part of me that was terrified of getting pregnant and I made damn sure I never put myself in that situation on purpose.
09/05/2013
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
I heard this myth about the search box.... ;-)
09/05/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by MrWill
I heard this myth about the search box.... ;-)
LMAO! MrWill I salute you!!
09/05/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ansley
I can honestly say that I have never believed a single sex myth. I was always the kid who was scoping out the books we shouldn't be reading or finding out the truth by reading my mother's copy of the "Joy of Sex". There was also a ... more
My mom was always totally honest with me too, so when I heard anything, I bounced it off her. I always had the "straight scoop", even if I was harassed about it by others who "thought" they were "in the know".
11/12/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by MrWill
I heard this myth about the search box.... ;-)
I don't get it? You mean using the Search to check for things? Please believe me, some of us here became "sexual" long before there were "search boxes" or an internet to use them on!!!
11/12/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Mine aren't entirely myths, but given that I never got "The talk" from anyone I just went by what I saw. From tv shows and movies I believed that if you kissed or got married you'd just...have a baby. It'd literally just be in your arms a few minutes after you did it. (*eventually learned about sex and pregnancy and all that*)

I also happened to find porn tapes as an almost-pre teen and I thought that women enjoy sex 'just because'. A guy puts their dick in them, and the girl moans and that's simply supposed to feel good somehow. (*Eventually learned about foreplay and the g-spot and that most women actually don't like vaginal penetration alone and plenty of stuff*)
11/12/2013
Contributor: apodosis apodosis
Not to be a downer... but I'm still trying to shake off the myth that my worth as a human being is mostly dependent on my sexual desirability. It's a pretty powerful myth.
08/13/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
women lose their libido sometime in their 50s & it never returns.

NOT! I lost my libido in my 40s due to major relationship issues. AND, my sexual desire returned in my 50s with a raging appetite. and I've been loving every minute of it!
08/21/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by edeneve
women lose their libido sometime in their 50s & it never returns.

NOT! I lost my libido in my 40s due to major relationship issues. AND, my sexual desire returned in my 50s with a raging appetite. and I've been loving every minute of it!
That comment sounds like it's from someone who use to frequent EF. Could it really be out missing Edeneve ?

Welcome Back !
08/21/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by apodosis
Not to be a downer... but I'm still trying to shake off the myth that my worth as a human being is mostly dependent on my sexual desirability. It's a pretty powerful myth.
Touché!! Excellent call on this one, apodosis!!
08/22/2014
Contributor: TS Julie TS Julie
That Asian guys are not well hung...that one was busted a few months ago by a more than adequately equipped guy I was with. Also, he lasted a long time & produced a fairly sizable 'volume'
07/20/2016