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Old wives tale but this time about dildos? Large diameter dildos stretch you out too much?

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Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Will taking a bigger dildo make you less tight or does it still go back to normal after?

I'm aware they are muscles and even if it was skin.. I have stretched earlobes (weird i know) and when my jewelry is out it shrinks maybe 3 sizes within the hours.. should i really worry about preferring a larger dildo.. will it make me less tight for my partner?
08/14/2011
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
If you are not being abusive to your nether regions (damaging), it will go back to normal. Also, if you are doing kegels while using the dildo, you will be strengthening the walls at the same time.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by Ghost
If you are not being abusive to your nether regions (damaging), it will go back to normal. Also, if you are doing kegels while using the dildo, you will be strengthening the walls at the same time.
Yeah I'm pretty tame with stuff.. I just wondered.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Orion Orion
Well if you were to use the larger dildos on a regular basis it would definitely adjust to that size and stay there until you stop using it. It isn't so much as getting stretched wider etc in the scenario of a woman getting looser that's more with age. think of it as the elastic waste band in underwear some pants etc now stretch that over and over what happens? This takes years and years though lol.

In your case if this toy is significantly larger than your partner then quite frankly constant use of it will make you accommodating for that size and he will be losing out. Hate to say less tight cause that's not whats happening there is more of adapting to larger size. If you do not use everyday for instance would be fine will tighten back up specially with the exercises.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I was wondering the same thing. Interesting replies.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by Orion
Well if you were to use the larger dildos on a regular basis it would definitely adjust to that size and stay there until you stop using it. It isn't so much as getting stretched wider etc in the scenario of a woman getting looser that's more ... more
Alright neat. I mean I'm not talking HUGE but like.. 1 1/2 to 1 3/4 etc and I don't plan on using it bunches.
08/15/2011