So I've never had a vaginal orgasm. But once in a while I can get through if I stimulate myself while my boyfriend and I are together.
The problem: He obviously doesn't realise that I need more than him to feel happy in the end.
In my first relationship, I faked every single time, because I never knew that how to tell my partner this. I also faked a lot in my next relationship, although I let me my partner do me favours. O
So now again, I am trying this relationship thing. And I am not one to foresake sex. It's important. If I don't feel pleased after sex, I tell him that I don't feel satisfied with him, and he feels really inadequate.
I hate doing that, and it'd all because I'm too chicken to tell him that I can't orgasm unless I get special attention. I feel so broken, and I feel like I'm too complicated, and sex won't be enjoyable with me, all because I can't just do the stereotypical, insert and enjoy, method of orgasming with my partner.
I realize that apparently many women can't have vaginal orgasms. So I ask them, how did you explain this to your partner? Was he accepting of this? Was it uncomfortable and awkward in bed after? What things can you still do for things to be fun, for BOTH of you in bed?
The problem: He obviously doesn't realise that I need more than him to feel happy in the end.
In my first relationship, I faked every single time, because I never knew that how to tell my partner this. I also faked a lot in my next relationship, although I let me my partner do me favours. O
So now again, I am trying this relationship thing. And I am not one to foresake sex. It's important. If I don't feel pleased after sex, I tell him that I don't feel satisfied with him, and he feels really inadequate.
I hate doing that, and it'd all because I'm too chicken to tell him that I can't orgasm unless I get special attention. I feel so broken, and I feel like I'm too complicated, and sex won't be enjoyable with me, all because I can't just do the stereotypical, insert and enjoy, method of orgasming with my partner.
I realize that apparently many women can't have vaginal orgasms. So I ask them, how did you explain this to your partner? Was he accepting of this? Was it uncomfortable and awkward in bed after? What things can you still do for things to be fun, for BOTH of you in bed?