In the recent 'where did you lose your virginity' discussion, there were posts about those whose First Time really was on their wedding night. There were also many mentions about how exhausted and tired they were, and did it just for form's sake.
So, I'm coming from never having a consummated marriage (it's still ending in divorce because we can't 'prove' non-consummation). And I distinctly do NOT recall anything about my wedding day except a few highlights that are jogged by looking at the pictures - I was running on sleep deprivation that whole week beforehand to get it ready. And I know for certain that my head hit the pillow and I was out like a light as soon as I got into bed that night. The dramas and fatigue were too much to even bother trying to do anything for 'form's sake' (who's watching to make sure you do it, anyway?) just because it HAD to be THAT night.
Question: Did you consummate your marriage your wedding night? Or did you wait for the day after? How much did fatigue (if any) get in the way of your enjoyment? Did you feel it was worth it for form's sake or did it really mean something to you?
So, I'm coming from never having a consummated marriage (it's still ending in divorce because we can't 'prove' non-consummation). And I distinctly do NOT recall anything about my wedding day except a few highlights that are jogged by looking at the pictures - I was running on sleep deprivation that whole week beforehand to get it ready. And I know for certain that my head hit the pillow and I was out like a light as soon as I got into bed that night. The dramas and fatigue were too much to even bother trying to do anything for 'form's sake' (who's watching to make sure you do it, anyway?) just because it HAD to be THAT night.
Question: Did you consummate your marriage your wedding night? Or did you wait for the day after? How much did fatigue (if any) get in the way of your enjoyment? Did you feel it was worth it for form's sake or did it really mean something to you?