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Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I need real answers and this is the best place I could think to come.

Do they really hurt? Is it all just a myth? Do guys just say that so that you'll feel bad and finish 'em off?
05/01/2012
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Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
No, it is not a myth. It really does become painful. And to add to that, I can even get them by not having sex and just being horny for an extended period of time, which is quite often, LOL!
05/02/2012
Contributor: interestingstuff interestingstuff
You don't have to finish them off. If you're not comfortable, they can always finish themselves off.
05/03/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
Good to know, thanks!
05/20/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Allison.Wilder
I need real answers and this is the best place I could think to come.

Do they really hurt? Is it all just a myth? Do guys just say that so that you'll feel bad and finish 'em off?
They're somewhat real. You never have to finish a guy off though...he's got hands!
06/18/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Nope. Blue balls are purely physiological. Just never apply pressure to him to finish, and say that either way, you did have a good time. Guys get really self conscious, and that's when it hurts to not come. But for seriously... if I can have sex and not come, then not feel pain, he can do so too.
06/22/2012
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Nope. Blue balls are purely physiological. Just never apply pressure to him to finish, and say that either way, you did have a good time. Guys get really self conscious, and that's when it hurts to not come. But for seriously... if I can have sex ... more
Blue balls most certainly are really a medical condition. The medical term is Vasocongestion, and I just wrote an article (waiting to be approved) over it.

I am not in anyway trying to insult your intelligence, but you do realize that physiological essentially means physical right?
11/30/2012
Contributor: Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
Yes, I can attest to the whole "blue balls" condition. Yes, it really does hurt a lot, but like others have mentioned, you should never feel forced to do anything.

I have also experience what MrWishyWashy was talking about. I have gone long enough periods of time without ejaculating to the point where they feel very swollen and are extremely uncomfortable until I am relieved.
01/27/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by Fluffy Snuggles
Yes, I can attest to the whole "blue balls" condition. Yes, it really does hurt a lot, but like others have mentioned, you should never feel forced to do anything.

I have also experience what MrWishyWashy was talking about. I have ... more
Yes, blue balls does exist. If a man stays sexually aroused for a long period of time without having release, it is painfully. I have experienced this phenomenon on many occasions.
There are always ways to deal with it without pressuring your partner, and, if you leave it alone it will become less painful over time, the feeling is not permanent .
05/28/2013