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^ This.
I like the fact people around here are supportive, it really adds to the place and makes one feel comfortable.
As for the porn thing (forgot to add my own two cents) I am not big on porn, but I like erotica. (Written porn.) When
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^ This.
I like the fact people around here are supportive, it really adds to the place and makes one feel comfortable.
As for the porn thing (forgot to add my own two cents) I am not big on porn, but I like erotica. (Written porn.) When with my ex, he liked drawn porn, so i would find him hentai and other drawn porn for him to read/look at. It didn't bother me, what bothered me was in the end, yes, he cheated.
With the comment of the wives against it and the guys being horndogs and all and more likely to cheat, I don't think that's entirely true. My ex looked at porn, I bought him a lot of toys, we cybered, and he still ended up cheating. So i don't see the correlation too much as how much porn is watched, but maybe the fact the guys just don't like their controlling wives and have no better way of telling her so than to just let things get to a head and then cheat. not to say all do, but I just don't think porn is the factor.
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I agree with Goth's "controlling wives" theory. My Man likes porn a lot, (well I like it, too. I've obtained a good deal more than he has, due to my connections and points from Eden.) He's, I guess a horndog, although he knows how to reign it in in public. He can be discreet if he wants.
But, I don't try to control him, nag him, tell him what he can or can't do etc. He's never cheated. (I don't count what we did during our Open Relationship phase as cheating as we were both doing the same things and agreed to see other people) He's a loyal, horny, porn watching, wife loving man. *sigh*
So, I think the whole "controlling wife" thing is going to be more predictive of poor behavior and cheating than watching porn. Many people, men and women, can enjoy pornography in a monogamous relationship. The presence and enjoyment of this entertainment doesn't predispose people to cheating from what I have seen... but the "controlling, nagging wife" situation does.