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Would you be offended if your partner wanted to "finish" themselves?

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Contributor: needapacker needapacker
I can't cum from sex with my boyfriend because of certain emotional reasons. He understands and is okay with it, but i'd like to cum even though he can't get me to. I don't know how to go about asking if he minds me doing that.
Would you mind if your partner wanted to finish up themselves after sex?
01/21/2013
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Nope! I would actually encourage them to do it!
01/22/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
My partner cant finish me without toys and sometimes not even with toys. So a lot of times I'll finish myself before or after sex and let him watch. I like to do it before more though, because it really gets him going.
01/22/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
No it would not bother me.
01/22/2013
Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
Quote:
Originally posted by needapacker
I can't cum from sex with my boyfriend because of certain emotional reasons. He understands and is okay with it, but i'd like to cum even though he can't get me to. I don't know how to go about asking if he minds me doing ... more
I would never mind and he doesn't when I need to.
01/22/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
no, but I'd like to watch.
01/22/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Why not just start doing it and see what he does? He can always participate in other ways too. My husband likes to grope my breasts while I finish myself off. There are always say to involve him!
01/22/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I wouldn't be offended. I think potentially after some time, they could maybe even come with me, especially if they became comfortable sharing their problems with me that way and advocating for themselves. I would encourage them to finish themselves and ask if there was anything I could do to help. I guess it would be best if I could watch or be involved in some way, but I would never make that a condition!
01/24/2013
Contributor: tequilafish tequilafish
I wouldn't be offended by that at all.
01/24/2013
Contributor: happywaffle34 happywaffle34
Quote:
Originally posted by needapacker
I can't cum from sex with my boyfriend because of certain emotional reasons. He understands and is okay with it, but i'd like to cum even though he can't get me to. I don't know how to go about asking if he minds me doing ... more
no it could be really good for the both of you actually.
01/24/2013
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
wouldn't offend me
01/24/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
nope.. i wouldnt be offended at all... i like to watch.
01/24/2013
Contributor: KissTheSkyBaby KissTheSkyBaby
wouldn't offend me at all. I love a good show
01/24/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Wouldn't bother me a bit.
01/24/2013