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Would you be bothered if you saw marks from someone else on your hookup buddy?

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Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
I've been having a lot of very rough sex with several different partners right now, and the bruises/marks are starting to build up. All partners are aware that I have sex with other people, but they've definitely noticed the marks from other partners. They seem fine with it, but I'm not sure if I'm being insensitive. Even though everything is noncomittal, I think people secretly like the idea of rough sex being "just between us".

If you're not into rough sex, imagine if your hookup buddy had hickeys from some other person they hooked up with.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I would not be bothered
DeliciousSurprise , Tori Rebel , joja , TitsMcScandal
4  (16%)
I would be a little bothered, but ultimately not care
Ruru , UnknownGirl , SexyStuff , firekitten , Sohotdinosaur , pinkcupcakes , Coralbell , moonch1ld , Waterfall , BadassFatass , Epicurean , sbon , potstickers , HoneyHoney , zeebot , MattBryant , liilii080
17  (68%)
It would bother me a lot
Yoda , married with children , Gunsmoke , girl next door
4  (16%)
Total votes: 25
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02/23/2011
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Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
If they're just you're hook up buddy it's probably not that big a deal.
02/23/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
B/C it is a hook up buddy it is not someone I am that emotionally attached to, so I wouldn't care. But, that would also cancel out the chance of anything more ever developing, probably.
02/24/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I don't usually like thinking about people my partner is having sex with if they are so it would bother me a little, even if both of us were screwing around with other people.
02/24/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
As long as everyone's up front about the fact that it's not an exclusive sexual relationship, I think it's fine. If they kno you're having sex with multiple people, then it shouldn't be too overwhelming.
02/25/2011
Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
If it's noncommital then I see no problem.
02/25/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
So long as you're honest with everyone, I don't see why it should be a problem.
02/26/2011
Contributor: MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by Epicurean
I've been having a lot of very rough sex with several different partners right now, and the bruises/marks are starting to build up. All partners are aware that I have sex with other people, but they've definitely noticed the marks from other ... more
If i had a hookup buddy, no. But id wanna leave MY mark too lol. Now my fiance.... shits gonna fly, brother! Lol
02/26/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
If it's a hook up there's not supposed to be interference from feelings so no big deal.
02/26/2011
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I would not be bothered.

The only time I would be bothered would be if we had pre-arranged for him/her not to be marked so I could mark them.
02/28/2011