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Would you allow your Partner to have sex with you/use his hand or go down on you while your on your period?

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Contributor: ordinaryak ordinaryak
It seems that tons of people (not just men) are quite disgusted by this even the thought of this.
i was wondering how many of you are like me and my boyfriend who engage in all sorts of things while im on my period (without special protection or doing it in the tub ect.) we used to joke about how he looked like a lion after a kill when he was done going down on me and would have blood on his face.

Men feel free to join in i would like to know your opinions as well!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
NO NEVER! No nakedness while its that time of the month
2  (10%)
We will have sex but we use protection/dont do it on the bed and nothing else
We will have sex and use hands but nothing else
3  (14%)
No restrictions here!
16  (76%)
Total votes: 21
Poll is closed
02/17/2010
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Contributor: Juliettia Juliettia
Quote:
Originally posted by ordinaryak
It seems that tons of people (not just men) are quite disgusted by this even the thought of this.
i was wondering how many of you are like me and my boyfriend who engage in all sorts of things while im on my period (without special protection or ... more
It really depends on my mood and flow. I will not let him go down on me while on my period, and he has no interest in doing so. As for sex, as long as I'm light and in the mood we'll have sex.
02/17/2010
Contributor: Krysia Krysia
Hmm. I once (or twice) had a period when my someone and I were getting on..and I guess it'll be like that while I have my period. It's either oral sex for him, anal sex for both of us, and a hand job (with my undies, lol) on my clit for me.

Works for us, though.
02/17/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'd guess that you need the ubiquitous "Other" option here. Having sex when my wife is on her period is up to her - and she rarely opts for it. However, on Valentines Day she was near the end of her period and was up for it - so we did. I even did a little oral 'dive' on her clit. We always use a Liberator Throe - so this was no exception - clean up is easier that way.
02/17/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I seem to get real horny during my period. I actually need hard sex at this time but no oral...never been mentioned. Sex during my period also somewhat alleviates my cramps. Yes, we use my Liberator Throw, used to use a towel.
02/17/2010
Contributor: Darling Dove Darling Dove
If I'm clean and feeling up to it I dont think there'd be any restrictions. I dont mind sex on my period either. I dont get it or opt for it much but I would feel depressed if a guy outright declined to do it just because of a little mess.
02/17/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
The only time I really decline doing something on my period is if I'm bleeding really heavily or my cramps are excrutiating. Otherwise, I use a Diva Cup so I can clean up completely for oral sex. Sometimes we can even have sex with the cup in, but usually we take it out. As long as we throw down an old towel, I'm not shy or grossed out about bleeding and my husband isn't either.
02/17/2010
Contributor: Two Loves Two Loves
We typically don't do oral when she's on her period just because neither one of us are very comfortable with it. Besides that though anything else goes. Doing nothing for about 1 week out of the 4 every month seems crazy, especially considering how horny she can get during her period.
02/17/2010
Contributor: SexyTigerX SexyTigerX
Well I think if he's up for it then I certainly am. He usually won't go down on me in the ture sense. He would play and kiss and lick on my clit with no prob. Sex on my period is awesome, I think anyway!!! Some of the best things in life are the most messy. And like Two Loves said us girls can get pretty horny during our periods.
02/17/2010
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It's definitely off-limits down there any time during my period. I don't even want to mess-around with my Lady Cup if I can help it!!!
02/17/2010
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I chose "NO NAKIE TIME!" but really, what I mean is that there's no Nakie Time for ME. We do a fair bit of pegging, anal play, and oral sex on him when it's my time of the month. He gets queasy when I even talk about it (which only tempts me to talk about it MORE, which doesn't really lead to anything productive) so I just leave the tampon in and accept the fact that my week's loss is his week's gain.
02/17/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Would I? Yes! Do we? NO.

Mine can't deal with the blood. Which sucks, because I am more aroused, if that's possible, during that time. I think this falls #1 on his list of things never to do, along with pegging (#2).
02/17/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
It really depends on my cycle that month in all honesty, but most of the time there are no restrictions from me.
02/18/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
It really depends on whether I have a month where I turn into a "Momster", you know skin turns green, cramps make me resemble the Hunchback of NotreDame, and only snarling growls are heard from my general direction. On those months Sigel and Arch both like to work over time...A LOT of overtime!
02/19/2010
Contributor: ajlq ajlq
Quote:
Originally posted by ordinaryak
It seems that tons of people (not just men) are quite disgusted by this even the thought of this.
i was wondering how many of you are like me and my boyfriend who engage in all sorts of things while im on my period (without special protection or ... more
I get EXTREMELY horny that time of month but it also seems like my pussy is "resetting" its elasticity or something (it makes sense that it must have to do that at some point, right? else we'd all be as large as buckets?)...often during my period, my pussy goes from big to small (OW-OW-OW! TOO BIG!) and back like THAT, very sensitive to pain during that time. But usually my opinion is: if I'm sure he's game, then I'm game. Not everyone I've slept with has been forthcoming and outright about what they want or don't want. If I'm unsure whether he's game, I'd rather not risk the Face of Horror that might occur when he's done and pulls out his sword, bloodied from the battle!
02/19/2010
Contributor: KBToys24 KBToys24
No oral but everything else is always available. If my partner is worried about a mess we just do it in the shower
02/20/2010
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Other: No sex or oral, but he touches me externally while I have my Diva Cup in. The mess makes me self-conscious, and my cervix sits low during my period so sex hurts.
02/20/2010
Contributor: Raven Raven
I have never had any problem with having sex during my period at all, and in fact I find it kind of erotic. There really are no limits where I'm concerned here, and I've even had my husband insert or remove tampons, which he loves to do. And a little oral is not unheard of, either.
02/21/2010