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Women: What position is the best position for you while masturbating?

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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I usually always masturbate laying on my back with my knees pulled up towards my head. Thats my old faithful position, USUALLY!

I just discovered today that it is so much easier for me to orgasm while positioned on my knees with my back bent forward, head on the bed. Not sexy, I know, but it gave me crazy orgasms that have left my legs really heavy and difficult to walk with.

So what position do you find best for you? Do you switch it up from time to time or do you always use the same positon?

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Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
On my back, legs bent close to my chest
7
On my back, legs spread out
58
On my stomach, legs close together
6
On my stomach, legs spread appart
2
On my side, one leg bent supporting the position
3
On my heels, back supported by wall, bed, etc.
3
On my heels, without any support
2
On my heels, with one hand on the ground
1
On my knees, back straight
1
On my knees, back bent forward
8
On my knees, chest and head and ground, bed, etc
5
Standing up
3
other
9
Total votes: 108 (69 voters)
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Contributor: gone77 gone77
Flat on my back with my legs spread. I've masturbated in other positions, but this is by far the best one for me to get off on.
09/02/2010
Contributor: kck kck
In the shower, I love to lay in the tub, back slightly propped up against the wall, with my knees bent, legs spread wide open. It's awesome!
09/02/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
On my back legs spread or on my liberator wing.
09/02/2010
Contributor: softkkisses softkkisses
On my back... but Im finding the swing works great too.
09/02/2010
Contributor: kcordie kcordie
laying down on my back
09/02/2010
Contributor: kcordie kcordie
or in the shower laying in the tub full of warm water and yummy smelling bubble bath
09/02/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by SydVicious
On my back legs spread or on my liberator wing.
I would love to have some liberator shapes. I think they would help with my sciatic nerve.
09/02/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
Almost always lying back, legs spread out-- but I will change it up every once in a while. The one thing I just can't seem to master is standing up... I cannot get off while standing to save my life.
09/02/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
It completely depends on what toy I'm using, and where I'm using it. So I picked a lot of answers
09/02/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz
Almost always lying back, legs spread out-- but I will change it up every once in a while. The one thing I just can't seem to master is standing up... I cannot get off while standing to save my life.
I know, me too! I would so love to master this one day. It would make my man so happy to make love to me in the shower and make me cum while I stand and bath in there. Maybe one day!
09/02/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
It completely depends on what toy I'm using, and where I'm using it. So I picked a lot of answers
I figured that would be the case for many people.

For example the little sue might be easier to use by sitting on it rather than lying back. I haven't tried the little sue but I would totally love it I am sure.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I like to be on my back with my legs spread, its the most comfortable position for me and I can enjoy my orgasms more
I recently had an orgasm standing in shower and I felt light-headed after... guess it was too much for me that day.
09/03/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
With a toy, sitting but leaning back on a couch. No toy? Laying on my stomach.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
What about just plain sitting That's always most comfortable for me.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
I like to be on my back with my legs spread, its the most comfortable position for me and I can enjoy my orgasms more
I recently had an orgasm standing in shower and I felt light-headed after... guess it was too much for me that day.
Thats kind of scary! I wouldn't want to pass out and fall :S
09/03/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
When I watch porn I sort of sit in a chair. It has a high back so I can sort of prop myself in such a way that my head is supported by the back of the chair my butt is near the edge of the seat and my legs (calves) are on either side of my computer. That is the only time I can sort of sit to masturbate.
09/03/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I used to frequently do it lying on my belly, with a leg pulled up for support. I also used to masturbate standing in the shower, in my apartment in college, because I had so many room mates, it was the only place to get any privacy. Not really safe for me, I get really shaky legged, and have been know to black out for a few seconds. But, that's almost always during sex, when they are stronger. Mine are much stronger with a partner.

Now, I find lying on my back easiest. I think I made the switch when I started using toys. It's too hard to try to fit them in, when you are on your belly. It's also closer to how I orgasm when we're having sex, most of the time, at least the first one.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Okay, I guess I am just weird. I have a very strong preference for masturbating sitting up -- not leaning back, but leaning forward with a straight/slightly arched lower back so that there is a lot of pressure on my vulva. This is the only way I can usually orgasm while masturbating. And I sometimes like to squeeze my legs together while rocking/grinding/gyrat ing. So any toy that allows me to rock and grind on it in this way is an absolute godsend. I have never liked to use my hands.

I have masturbated like that since I was a child. (Though I had no idea it was masturbating or even sexual back then -- I only knew it felt good.) Anytime I sat on a hard chair, I would be tempted to grind against it. I would go into a blank daze, focusing only on the incredible sensations.

It must have just become habit since I accidentally discovered those awesome sensations so young. Ironically, though I unknowingly discovered masturbation so young, I was 22 before I ever had sex!
09/05/2010
Contributor: FVWhitechapel FVWhitechapel
The strongest orgasms I have while masturbating are actually while sitting crosslegged with something supporting my back (like a wall, bathtub, tree, etc.) Those are the ones that make me go deaf momentarily.

But it's rare I actually get to *do* that...
09/05/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Often I lay on my back with my legs spread, but the 'tried and true' method that I've been using since I was a kid is laying on my front with my hands balled up underneath me. It works every time, even if I do get a bit sore sometimes -_-;;
09/06/2010
Contributor: joja joja
I pretty much can't get off unless I'm on my back. I usually start with my legs spread, but I notice that as I get closer I kind of curl up, and usually end up with my knees almost to my shoulders

I used to occasionally masturbate kneeling in doggy position and laying my upper body on my bed for support, but now that I have a high bed frame I haven't done it in a while.
09/06/2010
Contributor: paralax paralax
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I usually always masturbate laying on my back with my knees pulled up towards my head. Thats my old faithful position, USUALLY!

I just discovered today that it is so much easier for me to orgasm while positioned on my knees with my back bent ... more
normaly on my back is the go to one. but now and then i lay on my stomach when im reaally tired.
09/10/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
On my back. It's too hard any other way for me, really.
09/10/2010
Contributor: twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
On my back with my legs spread. It's so easy to relax doing it this way and I feel like it makes the orgasm stronger. At least until I can get my hands on a suction cup toy
09/11/2010
Contributor: PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
On my back with one leg in the air.
09/11/2010
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
Flat on my back with my legs spread. I've masturbated in other positions, but this is by far the best one for me to get off on.
agreed
03/23/2011
Contributor: haley730 haley730
On back, legs spread
08/22/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
On my back and legs spread.
08/22/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
If my legs are spread out wider, my orgasms are more powerful
08/22/2011