I can feel it. I have feeling for the entire length of my vagina and even my cervix.

It feels like hot, liquid love being shot inside of you. MMMMMM. I LOVE it. But, we use withdrawal as a birth control method, so the only time we do it is during my period. You can feel the throbbing, and know he's having so much pleasure, it's so nice. The clean up doesn't bother me at all. It's just semen. It is not a big deal. I have tight PC and vaginal muscles so it usually takes a while to drip out, usually when I'm in the bathroom. NOT a big deal for me. When I was on Depo or the Pill I would sometimes wear a mini pad, to catch some of it but aside from that, a hot bath soon after will clean everything away.

Years ago, when we were having babies, or when I was on the Pill, on DepoProvera or using my diaphragm, he came inside all the time. I really miss it when I want it. less

I've never experienced a guy coming inside me-without a condom. I'm saving that for marriage. I've heard horror storied about it:

It's gross
Feels weird
Oooozing
Etc.

I'm curious...
Have you done it? Do you like it? Hate it? What does it feel like?
Once my bf came so hard that I could feel it, but of course still had a condom, so I didn't deal with the aftermath.

Only women vote please but anyone can discuss of course. less

I don't know cervical biology. Pressure seems to be the key to a lot of pleasure and pain in that area, though. I've always had a female gyn, and almost always I've experienced discomfort (I liken it to a gentle testicle tap). I feel pressure and I feel sick to my stomach. Every body is different. less

I've actually found male doctors are MUCH more gentle during PAP smears. Being a nurse, I am not a big fan of female doctors. IMO, they think every other woman is a "baby" and don't empathize with any pain they don't have themselves. JMO. All my doctors are men. I would never let a female OBGYN take care of me during a pregnancy or assist during childbirth or C Section. Never. They are mean, as they either have no children, and resent you, or don't have the time to raise their own and can't empathize with Mothers who raise their own. (Obviously, I have issues with female doctors. Most nurses do.) For either working with them or having them take care of me, I take a man over a woman doctor ANY day. Mileage may vary.



I not only feel PAP smears, even the gentle ones, but I feel My Man ejaculating. Everybody's body is different. less

And I've had good and bad doctors of both genders, but I hear what you're saying. Empathy certainly helps.

The worst gynecologist I ever had (who told me I was "unbalanced" when I said how much the procedure was hurting, left me bleeding for a week and didn't so much as apologize) was a woman. less

I've never had it without a condom precisely because of the very idea of having a goopy feeling in there just grosses me out. I think I would likewise wait until it was with someone I was planning on having kids with or that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with them and they got snipped if we decided we didn't want kids. I have no idea if I want kids or not yet...I'm not ready to be a mother. less

I've never experienced a guy coming inside me-without a condom. I'm saving that for marriage. I've heard horror storied about it:

It's gross
Feels weird
Oooozing
Etc.

I'm curious...
Have you done it? Do you like it? Hate it? What does it feel like?
Once my bf came so hard that I could feel it, but of course still had a condom, so I didn't deal with the aftermath.

Only women vote please but anyone can discuss of course. less

JFTR, a vasectomy does not reduce the amount of ejaculate noticeably. Sperm are very small, and even in quantities of several hundred million, they make up almost no visible amount of ejaculate. Most of ejaculate is prostate fluid. A lot of men think they will not have any ejaculate when they have a vasectomy, but the volume is the same. less

I've never experienced a guy coming inside me-without a condom. I'm saving that for marriage. I've heard horror storied about it:

It's gross
Feels weird
Oooozing
Etc.

I'm curious...
Have you done it? Do you like it? Hate it? What does it feel like?
Once my bf came so hard that I could feel it, but of course still had a condom, so I didn't deal with the aftermath.

Only women vote please but anyone can discuss of course. less

My boyfriend and I have both had very safe sexual histories, have been tested for everything, and I'm on birth control, so we rarely use condoms.

When he comes, it feels warm, but I can feel the contraction of his muscles more than I can actually feel the ejaculate. And knowing that he's getting there often is something that can throw me over the edge at the last minute so I can come with him. Everything just gets warmer and wetter. I much prefer him coming inside me than into a condom. I think it makes a much more intimate experience that our fluids are mixing and that we're close enough to (intelligently) make that decision with each other.

The aftermath is the gross. Afterward, usually, as soon as he pulls out, some oozes out. Which I hate. But we both usually clean up immediately afterward. I hate trying to cuddle directly afterward (but hey, it's so damn hot now that we usually lay on the bed as far away from each other as possible til our sweat cools of anyway ). Usually the first thing I do after I catch my breath is head to the bathroom and pee/clean myself up because if not, it starts to ooze out, potentially down my leg. and that's not attractive.

I'm probably going to instigate a "quickie rule" with my boyfriend, that if he insists on a quickie, I'm going to insist on a condom, because it's never fun when you have to jump up from sex and throw on work clothes/go to class/etc. and everything hasn't had a chance to drip out... less