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Contributor: Bailed Bailed
My fiancee is in the midst of her sexual prime.

I have a post-menopausal friend. I told her that my fiancee is in the midst of her sexual prime, wants sex every day and as many times as day as she can, is always horny, and she thinks about sex a lot. I asked her how long women's sexual primes last. She told me her sexual desires and activities waned when she entered perimenopause, yet she remained sexually active. Her sex drive abated considerably when she entered menopause, yet she still enjoyed sex. After menopause, she considered her sexual prime to be over, yet she still enjoys sex.

How many years can women be in their sexual primes?

My fiancee told me that she experienced a pronounced elevated sex drive at about 25, and her desire for sex has continued to intensify. Her mom hit menopause at 60. Is it possible for women to be in their sexual primes for 30 years and longer?

Do women who have a lot of sex as in almost every day intensify their sexual primes? Can women who have sex every day prolong their sexual primes?

I'm curious because I have never been with a woman who's anywhere close to my fiancee in terms of sexuality. Last night as we left a restaurant, after I opened the passenger door of my car for her, I caught her in one of her incredibly adorable moments. I grabbed her, yanked her to me, and we tongue tangoed passionately and and aggressively in a parking lot. She had subconsciously spread her legs like she does when we're naked and passionately kissing to allow my fingers easy access to her pussy. My fiancee expects to have sex every single day. How many more years will she continue to expect sex every day many times a day?
01/11/2020
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I don't see the point of the term 'sexual prime'.

Sex is a lifetime activity - and yes it will have it's ebbs and flows, but defining a 'prime' seems so limiting. It suggests that it can only get worse from here - which is not an appealing concept.

Enjoy your sexuality and forget about finding labels - sometimes it will be better - sometimes not. But hey, any sex is better than going to work!
01/11/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I don't see the point of the term 'sexual prime'.

Sex is a lifetime activity - and yes it will have it's ebbs and flows, but defining a 'prime' seems so limiting. It suggests that it can only get worse from here - ... more
Hi Gunsmoke,

Thanks..

My fiancee and I refer to sex we share as mystical experiences.

The point was she can go a whole lot longer than I can.
01/12/2020
Contributor: CurvyVixen CurvyVixen
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Originally posted by Bailed
Hi Gunsmoke,

Thanks..

My fiancee and I refer to sex we share as mystical experiences.

The point was she can go a whole lot longer than I can.
My boyfriend and I have the same struggles. I can last for at the most six hours and he can only last one round then needs to wait a couple of hours or even a whole day. I really don't think that there is going to be an end to her sexual prime. However, I do think honestly the only way to help the issue is really good communication between you and your partner. If she is really horny and always wants to have sex try being open and saying that you aren't really in the mood but you would love to assist like with the use of toys. Also for the situation in the parking lot I recommend you have her wear a wearable remote control vibrator so that if she does get the super turned on by you and you are unable to help you can stimulate her with the vibrator.
04/09/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
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Originally posted by CurvyVixen
My boyfriend and I have the same struggles. I can last for at the most six hours and he can only last one round then needs to wait a couple of hours or even a whole day. I really don't think that there is going to be an end to her sexual prime. ... more
My fiancee has always had an elevated sex drive. It's increased dramatically since she hit her sexual prime.

My fiancee can literally fuck for hours. When she was 19, she had a boyfriend who was about 4 years older. She said they used to fuck all night long. He was in his sexual prime. They used to fuck for hours every day. I told her that that's long gone. I can fuck her three times in one day beginning in early afternoon and ending before we fall asleep for the night.

I have read tons of research that women can enjoy sex much later in life than men; hence: Viagra.

Based upon experiencing sex with my fiancee, women get far more out of sex than do men. My fiancee has no limit to the number of orgasms she can experience.
04/10/2020