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Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
The other weekend, my partner and I were cuddling and I dozed off. I woke up to him massaging me under the sheets and I was instantaneously in the mood.

Has this ever happened to you?

Thanks for voting!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes- It was weird
3
Yes- Partner was massaging me
45
Yes- My partner was having sex with me when I woke up!
11
Yes- I was pissed
4
No- but it's a fantasy of mine
25
No- I would hate that
4
Total votes: 92 (81 voters)
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04/26/2011
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Wish she would - but after 21 years, it isn't likely.
04/26/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm the early riser, so usually the one doing the awakening.
04/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by mariedoll
The other weekend, my partner and I were cuddling and I dozed off. I woke up to him massaging me under the sheets and I was instantaneously in the mood.

Has this ever happened to you?

Thanks for voting!
He wakes me up all the time rubbing and tugging my panties off. Its delicious!
04/26/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I love it when he wakes me up for middle of the night sex... he did that last night about 2am! LOL!
04/26/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
That is a really fun state of consciousness to be sexual in. It's all in-between.... I also enjoy dozing off towards sleep while doing sexual things and then perking back up again whenever we... perk back up again
04/26/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
No, but I've done it to him.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I love when my partner does this. I love doing it to him too.
04/26/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
This hasn't happened to me but I don't think I'd mind it.
04/26/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I have had this happen before, where we just have hand at right place with slight rubbing when both asleep.
04/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
My Man often plays with me while I'm sleeping. I always wake up, when we had babies and I was getting very little sleep I wasn't happy about it, now I'm always ready, so it's fun.

For years he told me, "I'd love you to wake me up with a blow job." The only problem is, he sleeps like the dead. I did eventually try it, and it was like sucking on a fat wet noodle. He didn't wake up.

Every once in a while I do this, and he never wakes up. I tell him later in the day, "Ya know, I sucked your cock while you were asleep. You missed it. LOL!"
04/26/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
She has never done it to me but, I have done it to her numerous times. I am so amazed how wet I can get her without her waking up, she always wakes right before she orgasms.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I do love it when he wakes me like that! There is nothing like sleepy sex!
04/26/2011
Contributor: MissMandy MissMandy
That's hot, Tim.

I've both done this and had it done to me. I love it. Groggy, wake-up-wet sex is fun!
04/26/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
My Man often plays with me while I'm sleeping. I always wake up, when we had babies and I was getting very little sleep I wasn't happy about it, now I'm always ready, so it's fun.



For years he told me, "I'd ... more
This is too funny.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
My Man often plays with me while I'm sleeping. I always wake up, when we had babies and I was getting very little sleep I wasn't happy about it, now I'm always ready, so it's fun.



For years he told me, "I'd ... more
I do this too, but he never believes me!
04/26/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I've seen several people post on blogs, forums, etc. about how they feel so violated to wake up with their spouse touching them. Some even went as far as saying it was sexual assault and considering pressing charges! It's ridiculous. I feel sorry for anyone who has a spouse who would consider that assault.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
She has never done it to me but, I have done it to her numerous times. I am so amazed how wet I can get her without her waking up, she always wakes right before she orgasms.
Me too! It's not that I don't like it while I'm awake, but he can get me so much wetter when I'm asleep.

He thinks it because I'm dreaming it's someone else
04/26/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Misfit Momma
Me too! It's not that I don't like it while I'm awake, but he can get me so much wetter when I'm asleep.



He thinks it because I'm dreaming it's someone else
LOL. I wondered about that before.

I think it is because she is totally relaxed and not thinking about anything. Seriously, I have not seen her that wet since we first started seeing each other.
04/26/2011
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
I do this to my hubby & he loves it
04/26/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
My favorite way to wake up!
04/26/2011
Contributor: Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
I love morning massages.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
It's definitely a nice way to wake up
04/26/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
I tried waking my girlfriend up by going down on her. She wasn't into it, so I respected that and tried to retreat, but she managed to trap my head under her thigh and promptly fell back asleep. Lame!
04/26/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I used to love being woken up by something poking me in the spooning position. lol. Now THAT would get me instantly in the mood!
04/26/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I love when my fiancee wakes me up for some fun.
04/26/2011
Contributor: KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
Quote:
Originally posted by mariedoll
The other weekend, my partner and I were cuddling and I dozed off. I woke up to him massaging me under the sheets and I was instantaneously in the mood.

Has this ever happened to you?

Thanks for voting!
I do that to my partner all the time
04/27/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I have woken up to her giving me oral. When ever I try to touch her when she is sleeping, she gets angry.
04/27/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
I have woken up to her giving me oral. When ever I try to touch her when she is sleeping, she gets angry.
LOL my husband would be with you on this one. But I have found that if he does it after I have had a long sleep already I wake up nice. Could give it a try. I hate being woken up when I am still so tired. But he keeps trying (I think to hold it against me that I turned him down).
04/27/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
I tried waking my girlfriend up by going down on her. She wasn't into it, so I respected that and tried to retreat, but she managed to trap my head under her thigh and promptly fell back asleep. Lame!
Haha that is really lame! Perhaps you should try oooone more time.
04/27/2011