Sounds too good to be true and you know how the old sayings goes

Since I divorced, I've dated many divorcées. The majority came from loveless marriages where sex was perfunctory. Without exception, these women were horny, and they enjoyed and pursued their sexual passion. My fiancee was no exception. Her ex was the worst sex she's ever had. She was extremely sexually experienced. He was sexually inexperienced. She tried to teach him how to have euphoric sex. He refused to learn. His idea of sex was mounting her missionary, thrusting his dick inside of her until he came, rolling off of her, and calling it, "Making love." He demeaned her because she asked him to cum on her tits. He called her gross. She has never forgiven him for that. A wise man will never, ever demean a woman during sex.

My fiancee is not a making love girl. She wants to be banged, hard, rough, nasty, with lots of hair pulling, ass slapping, and dirty talking. After she's had her brains banged out, she'll rest blissfully within my embrace. She has told me that if her ex had fucked her like I fuck her, she wouldn't have had to endure years of misery.

So Cal probably is a unique region. It is tolerant of all people and their proclivities. Outside of NYC, it's probably the most liberal region of the country.

My fiancee has a public persona that belies her sexual persona. If you were to attend a business meeting with her, you'd assume she's Puritan, and you'd need a crowbar to pry her legs apart. Get her in a bedroom, and she'll reveal her passionate sexuality.

She is far more apt to talk graphically about sex after she's had a bottle of wine. However, I've heard her talk graphically about sex completely sober, especially when she's in a sexually insatiable mood, which is far more common than infrequent. She can have sex many times every day, which is very common for most women in their sexual primes.

She has always viewed sex as healthy, normal, and natural. She has always had an equality view of sex. Sex was for her enjoyment, too. She has once asked me, "If sex was euphoric, why shouldn't I have had sex?" She told me that sex was mental therapy for her. It relieved college stress, and it always improved her humor. I have detected sex's positive effect on her. If she's bitchy, or stressed, or depressed, a half-hour with my face buried in her bush and my tongue working her clit followed by a banging the way she loves it, and she's a transformed girl.

My fiancee and I are best friends. She knows she can confide in me about anything, and I will not judge her. After we had established mutual trust, we were free to tell each other anything and everything. She has told me that I am the only person, male or female, whom she has ever completely trusted.

Very early in our dating relationship, she was not reticent about telling me that sex was extremely important to her. She was and is in her sexual prime. She told me that she could have sex every day, many times a day.

We had mystical sex on our first date. We've had sex almost every day since. We are extremely sexually compatible. I've never experienced sexual compatibility with any women that comes close to the electrical passion that exists between my fiancee and I. As soon as she got in my car, sexual tension was palpable. We couldn't wait to rip each other's clothes off.

Very early in our relationship, maybe on our second date, she told me how she loved sex and what she didn't like. She also told me of her many sexual fantasies. She's had most of them since she began having sex. She was naive during her early sexual experiences. But she did know that she loved sex.

She sexually blossomed during her college years. She attended a liberal college where sexual equality was stressed. She was extremely good looking. She could have been Playmate of the Year. She had an incredible body. She always had guys hitting on her. She had her pick of men. During times she didn't have a boyfriend, she had numerous FWB's. As sexually active and adventurous as she was, she told me she was almost saintly compared to most of her sorority sisters. My fiancee had many MFM sexual experiences with the same two college guys. Many of her sorority sisters weren't as sexually conservative as my fiancee.

My fiancee relates her college experience to her sexual blossoming. We could be dining at a restaurant, watching NCAA football at a sports bar, or laying in my bed watching TV when something with activate her memory of a fond college experience, which will relate to another story of her sexual blossoming. Years ago, she told me I had the perfect size dick for her. I asked her how she knew. She told me that she had a one-night-stand with a guy who had a very small dick. Once she felt his small dick in her had, she knew his small dick would never work for her. She mercy fucked him and sent him packing. She told me that she preferred girth to long dicks. She did not enjoy guys with long dicks shoving them down her mouth.

I can vividly remember the firs time she told me to cum on her face. When she was in college, she believed the myth that semen enhanced her complexion. She'd often tell her boyfriends to cum on her face. She'd rub their cum into her face thinking it was improving her complexion. She now knows it was a myth, but she still likes facials.

That cum conversation led to her telling me how much she loved warm cum on her body, especially her tits. That led to her telling me about a college guy she used to bang who came in gallons (an exaggeration). She told me she had never seen a guy shoot as much cum as he did. He filled her mouth with cum when she gave him blow jobs. She explained that to me as segue to her asking me if it was normal for men to produce that much semen. I had no clue. I told her that she was in far better position to assess cum quantity than I was.

She see a handsome, studly black guy at a sports bar. If she's had a few glasses of wine, she'll reminisce about the two studly black guys she used to fuck while she was in college. She didn't tell me about the black associate professor until much later in our relationship. He was much older that she was. My sense if she has confounding feelings about her relationship with him. She had believed rumors about him that bordered on stereotyping. She said he was the complete opposite of rumors that were attached to him. She said he was extremely handsome and in excellent physical condition. She had an immediate sexual attraction to him. She initiated sex with him. He was exceptionally good in bed. She had a clandestine sexual relationship with him. She loved having sex with him because he assured she'd always experience sexual euphoria.

I have never been in a relationship with a woman who was my best friend, with whom I was in love, and with whom I've had the most exciting sex in my life. I've had women friends tell me that they wish they could have what my fiancee and I have. Very, very few people will ever experience it.

Here's reality: most married men have no clue of their wives' previous sexual experiences. Most men are either too insecure, judgmental, or jealous, or all three to deserve to know. Very early in my relationship with my fiancee, we agreed to open communication about everything including sex. Open and nonjudgmental communication is a foundation of authentic friendship. My fiancee has told me that I know more about her than anyone she has ever known. I will not judge her based upon her cherished sexual memories she's created during her sexual blossoming. I'll often tell her that she is most fortunate to have lived such an exciting, thrilling, and euphoric sex life.

My only regret was not meeting my fiancee many years ago. We are the essence of two of a kind.

Yes but this is also a known male instinct. From when we were savages. you know most of your sperm is actually fighting sperm looking for another mans seed to kill so that yours will make her pregnant.

its normal and gets me every time.