When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
Wish you were in better shape?
08/11/2011
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For myself- no. For my partner- yes.
08/11/2011
I could loose another 20 lbs, but for the most part I like my body just the way it is.
08/11/2011
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Most woman I know wish they were skinnier, better condition..etc. Most HUMANS do..male or female, I guess. However, it does not stop me from trying everything I can possibly do with my hubby...without breaking something, that is.
Originally posted by
link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
08/11/2011
Oh yeah, I definitely wish I was in better shape.
08/11/2011
I wish I was in better shape!
08/11/2011
I've been trying to get more active lately. I stopped smoking, and started going to the gym a few times a week--it's a start!
08/12/2011
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I can have sex fine, with no problems. I seem to have nearly endless energy when we have sex.
Originally posted by
link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
I do wish I were in better shape for everyday things, though. I have fibromyalgia, and sometimes even going into the basement with a load of laundry is enough to wear me out for hours. I know getting in better shaped would help this, I need to DO IT!
08/12/2011
Have no problems sex wise but yes wish i was in better shape.
08/12/2011
I want to be in better shape to feel better physically
08/12/2011
I try to exercise daily to keep in shape, or else I might get tired easily during sex.
08/12/2011
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This is exactly the way I feel.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I can have sex fine, with no problems. I seem to have nearly endless energy when we have sex.
I do wish I were in better shape for everyday things, though. I have fibromyalgia, and sometimes even going into the basement with a load of laundry ... more
I do wish I were in better shape for everyday things, though. I have fibromyalgia, and sometimes even going into the basement with a load of laundry ... more
I can have sex fine, with no problems. I seem to have nearly endless energy when we have sex.
I do wish I were in better shape for everyday things, though. I have fibromyalgia, and sometimes even going into the basement with a load of laundry is enough to wear me out for hours. I know getting in better shaped would help this, I need to DO IT! less
I do wish I were in better shape for everyday things, though. I have fibromyalgia, and sometimes even going into the basement with a load of laundry is enough to wear me out for hours. I know getting in better shaped would help this, I need to DO IT! less
The simple things wear me out, not the sex. But hell yes, of course I'd like to be in better shape.
Even when I was 30 pounds lighter than I am now, going to the gym and running everyday, I wanted to be in better shape. I am guessing there is not a single person out there who'd say they are perfect shape and need no improvement.
08/12/2011
I do a lot of yoga and find that since I quit smoking almost two years ago I have no stamina issues or flexibility issues in bed, however in general I feel that being in "shape" is a journey and continues throughout your lifetime.
08/13/2011
I am thick on the bottom so certain positions (like woman on top) are difficult. I would like to lose 50-60 lbs.
08/13/2011
Genderqueer, and yes. My health is terrible so I'd like to be fitter solely for that. Sex would be a nice benefit, but just not feeling horrid would be good.
08/13/2011
OOooOoH YEA.
08/13/2011
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i could be in betetr shape
Originally posted by
link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
08/13/2011
male, yes
08/13/2011
Female, and sometimes.
I have a love hate relationship with it. I'm fairly fit, but have a layer of "pinchable" that I often wish weren't there. In the past when I got like that I'd up the frequency and intensity of my workouts and lose ten pounds or however much, but I found that when I go any lower than around 128-130 I also go down a bra size (to a C cup). My but got flatter too. And although my middle got smaller as well, I still felt a lot flatter and less feminine. So when I was 145ish I'd get insecure every now and then about what I called "flab" and what everyone else called "skin," and then when I lost the weight I wanted I'd get insecure because I wasn't curvy enough. So then I'd gain weight again and of course then get to where I thought I was too heavy and oh the drama!
I finally realized that there was in fact a happy medium where I both look and feel my personal best, which is around 132-135. I got there and have made it my business to stay there. I balanced my diet and exercise right and it's been a lot better.
I have a love hate relationship with it. I'm fairly fit, but have a layer of "pinchable" that I often wish weren't there. In the past when I got like that I'd up the frequency and intensity of my workouts and lose ten pounds or however much, but I found that when I go any lower than around 128-130 I also go down a bra size (to a C cup). My but got flatter too. And although my middle got smaller as well, I still felt a lot flatter and less feminine. So when I was 145ish I'd get insecure every now and then about what I called "flab" and what everyone else called "skin," and then when I lost the weight I wanted I'd get insecure because I wasn't curvy enough. So then I'd gain weight again and of course then get to where I thought I was too heavy and oh the drama!
I finally realized that there was in fact a happy medium where I both look and feel my personal best, which is around 132-135. I got there and have made it my business to stay there. I balanced my diet and exercise right and it's been a lot better.
11/12/2011
Up until about two years ago, I was in great shape. Not supermodel shape or anything like that, but very physically fit. Then I was thrown from my horse and badly injured and during the very long recovery period, I gained weight and lost strength and flexibility. I am now VERY FRUSTRATED with my body. I had been working on getting back into shape, and was making progress when I was suddenly afflicted with pleurisy.
Let's just say that I am not at all happy with my body right now.
Let's just say that I am not at all happy with my body right now.
11/12/2011
I always try to get into shape, but sometimes I just don't have enough time in the day.
11/12/2011
i work my ass off in the gym; there's a couple things that need to be slimmed down and tightened up, but overall, I'm pretty pleased with my body.
11/12/2011
I feel like I've never had a problem in the bedroom where I needed to be in better shape.
11/12/2011
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definitely ..not just for sex either.and i would feel alot sexier if i didnt have my pooch from having kids.although..im very flexible and have no problem with new positions
Originally posted by
link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
11/13/2011
I wish I have more stronger muscles and a little bit taller. But it is ok now.
11/13/2011
I definitely want to be in far better shape for every aspect of my life.
01/14/2012
Not so much for me but for her.
01/14/2012
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