I always found watching porn and masturbating to be a private event for me. I think it's because I always had to sneak around watching porn and masturbating when I was with my ex GF. She had the mindset of watching porn as cheating on her. So I really felt embarrassed when she caught me watching porn and scolding me and belittled me about it. I love my wife and she is much different from my ex. She doesn't care if I watch porn and even said to invest in sex toys if I wanted to. She is excited and wants to see what kind of toys I get and wants to watch me use them. But I'm embarrassed to show her and use them in front of her. How do I get over this and be more sexually adventurous with my wife?
Wife wants to watch porn together but feel weird about it.
12/26/2020
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Why don’t you have her watch something and use a toy and you can walk in on her or watch through the door. You could catch her in the act and she has you join in on the fun.
01/03/2021
StrellaCeline93
I honestly can't say how you can get over it but I can say I did the same thing with my husband and it was really hot. He was so embarrassed the first time bcuz he picked the porn and he was worried about how I felt about it but he was so awkward the whole time and it kinda made me feel like it was a bad idea bcuz he looked uncomfortable but then I tried one more time a month later and just put on a porn that had a girl that I would think he would like (big boobs thicc and black hair like me) and he said when I gave him head and he heard her and me moaning it was the hottest thing in the world. I say just take a shot of whiskey if you're too nervous and then just let her take the lead. I hope yall have fun. And trust me, you have nothing to be embarrassed about she totally loves you and if you use a toy in front of her she'll love it. Try grabbing her hand and letting her play with your body with the toy also, that might get things started pretty good also.
01/04/2021
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Slashy1
I always found watching porn and masturbating to be a private event for me. I think it's because I always had to sneak around watching porn and masturbating when I was with my ex GF. She had the mindset of watching porn as cheating on her. So I
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I always found watching porn and masturbating to be a private event for me. I think it's because I always had to sneak around watching porn and masturbating when I was with my ex GF. She had the mindset of watching porn as cheating on her. So I really felt embarrassed when she caught me watching porn and scolding me and belittled me about it. I love my wife and she is much different from my ex. She doesn't care if I watch porn and even said to invest in sex toys if I wanted to. She is excited and wants to see what kind of toys I get and wants to watch me use them. But I'm embarrassed to show her and use them in front of her. How do I get over this and be more sexually adventurous with my wife?
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Also remember to feel fortunate to have such an open-minded wife. Many guys would give anything to have a partner onboard.
Make a date, and treat it like a romance ritual. Candles, music, bathing, etc. Create a separation from ordinary reality. Make it about you both, a special experience, like losing your virginity of sorts. Surprise her with some sexy lingerie to wear. Use the experience to grow more intimate- sharing your turn ons and exploring hers.
Best of luck!
01/10/2021
I’d say go for it. You might get some good ideas to try in the bedroom. Women that are willing to watch it with you are hard to find. I used to watch it with my ex and we got some crazy ideas and did things she would’ve never tried before. Worst case scenario is she doesn’t enjoy the same thing as you. Best case scenario is you can imagine your in it.
01/11/2021
qiangqiang
It all began about five years earlier. My wife, Kristie was working early in a teaching career in the local shool system. One year, as summer ended and the teachers went back to school, there was a sizable number of new teachers just hired over the summer break. Kristie came home from the first day after meeting them quite excited. Kristie is bi and she's always been attracted to hot, babe style women. We had already had a few threesomes with women she had met. But what was to unfold would make those past experiences pale.
It didn't take long for this new group to pull her in. Alot of that first month was basically them getting to know one another. They were all becoming good friends. One evening, they went to a local bar & grill and had a few drinks. Then a few more.... They were by a hotel and they all pulled money and got a room together. This was their first time really alone, however, there were six women drunk and giggling that had gone into a hotel and had a single room with two beds. The hotel made them take a roll away bed, however, it was never opened. They had a sexual encounter that night that made for stories within itself. They all stayed in the room until checkout as they all were sharing a first time lesbian orgy experience together.
It didn't take long for this new group to pull her in. Alot of that first month was basically them getting to know one another. They were all becoming good friends. One evening, they went to a local bar & grill and had a few drinks. Then a few more.... They were by a hotel and they all pulled money and got a room together. This was their first time really alone, however, there were six women drunk and giggling that had gone into a hotel and had a single room with two beds. The hotel made them take a roll away bed, however, it was never opened. They had a sexual encounter that night that made for stories within itself. They all stayed in the room until checkout as they all were sharing a first time lesbian orgy experience together.
01/12/2021
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