WHY DO YOU MASTURBATE?

Contributor: teachmetouchme teachmetouchme
OK. I have read polls about masturbation and sex and it seems to me that whether or not a person is living with their sex partner, he/she continues to masturbate. Why do you think that is so? Do you get something out of masturbation that you do not or can not get from a partner? Is it the inability to wait for sexual fulfilment (like if you have a hard on at 2:00 PM and your partner won't be home for several hours). Or, is it just a different sexual feeling/experience than partner sex? Lastly, do you hide your masturbation from your partner because it would hurt their feelings and/or your relationship?
02/05/2012
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I masturbate for fun, to relieve tension and to get a rush of endorphins. I don't hide it from my husband and I enjoy being able to freely enjoy myself, whether he is there or not.
02/05/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
We both masturbate, we both know about the other partner's masturbation, sometimes we tell each other about our masturbation sessions because it's sexy. Masturbation is purely about getting off, there's nothing to it but pleasure and possibly fantasy. Partnered sex is about a whole hell of a lot more than that. Sometimes all you really want is to get off, and that's when masturbation comes in, whereas with partnered sex, there's connection, human companionship, tenderness and consideration for someone other than yourself.

Also, I don't always have my partner there or he's not always in the mood, those are other times to go masturbate. Really, though, it's mostly about taking care of myself and loving my body.
02/05/2012
Contributor: Baby-Baby Baby-Baby
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Originally posted by teachmetouchme
OK. I have read polls about masturbation and sex and it seems to me that whether or not a person is living with their sex partner, he/she continues to masturbate. Why do you think that is so? Do you get something out of masturbation that you do ... more
We both masturbate, sometimes with each other, sometimes without. For me it relieves stress and if I had a choose I would be having sex not playing with mysef.
02/05/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I masturbate because I believe that it's healthy to masturbate. It's also a lot of fun.
02/05/2012
Contributor: Snozzberries Snozzberries
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
We both masturbate, we both know about the other partner's masturbation, sometimes we tell each other about our masturbation sessions because it's sexy. Masturbation is purely about getting off, there's nothing to it but pleasure and ... more
I second this entire post.
I don't think I could have said it better myself.
02/05/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by Snozzberries
I second this entire post.
I don't think I could have said it better myself.
Ditto!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
02/05/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
We both masturbate, we both know about the other partner's masturbation, sometimes we tell each other about our masturbation sessions because it's sexy. Masturbation is purely about getting off, there's nothing to it but pleasure and ... more
Well said.
02/05/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
ALL FUCKING DAY LONG.
02/05/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I masturbate more when my partner isn't available. Like right now he's long distance. It's definitely a different experience though with some prominent similarities. I find it very relaxing. I can put absolutely everything else out of my mind. I'm pretty open about it with my boyfriend though he's somewhat uncomfortable with it.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
i masturbate even if i have a sexual partner it just feels good and its fun.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Over here Over here
So, is masturbation a different sexual experience? Is it something that sex with a person can not satisfy?
02/08/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
i don't have a partnet, so i have to masturbate. although i might still masturbate, if they weren't home and i was in the mood.. even if they were home, maybe i could be able to please myself better then they could.
02/08/2012