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Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Who starts a typical session? You or your partner?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I start it!
Gunsmoke , Darling Jen , married with children , Valentinka , darthkitt3n , null , Lummox , jankit , Moein , PiratePrincess , extrafun , sinfullysweet1 , MaryExy , AnotherPrettyFace
14  (29%)
My partner starts it!
liilii080 , pinkcupcakes , Cream in the Cupcake , teachmetouchme
4  (8%)
It's pretty much 50/50.
Jul!a , Coralbell , Envy , Michelle Menace , OhMy! , Sammi , sbon , SexyStuff , Lady Venus , Queenbee35 , BeautiFullFigured , Epicurean , Dusk , Miss T , potstickers , MrRainybowbow , Airekah , SexyySarah , NaturalWoman , Mr.RightNow , Kaltir , Airen Wolf , Fun Lover , kittychilla , BadgersRose , bunny love , ellejay , MsGoosie , xoflxokcxo , Ilovelingerie , switzerland
31  (63%)
Total votes: 49
Poll is closed
02/14/2011
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Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I initiate too, I just wouldn't say it's quite 50/50. Maybe 40/60.
02/14/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
she may 20% of the time.
02/14/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
It's pretty much even for us.
02/15/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
He wants it more often, but since I know that I try to start it more often even if I'm not "in the mood" so it can be 50/50
02/15/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyStuff
He wants it more often, but since I know that I try to start it more often even if I'm not "in the mood" so it can be 50/50
The same goes for us He seems to forget how often I do start it though, maybe because he's too focused on how much he wants me to, lol.
02/15/2011
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
It's definitely 50/50, hubby and I take turns in a way! LOL
02/15/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
50/50
02/17/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I usually initiate, but thats because he's always in the mood and if he initiated whenever he wanted, it would never end!
02/17/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Quote:
Originally posted by PiratePrincess
I usually initiate, but thats because he's always in the mood and if he initiated whenever he wanted, it would never end!
Lmao! I love your answer! We're both always up for it, and usually in the mood, but try to respect if the other seems to be preoccupied, so we miss a lot of chances for it, but make up for those with others, lol.
02/17/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Kaltir
Who starts a typical session? You or your partner?
It's pretty even between the three of us.
02/17/2011
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
It depends on who is more horny at the time and how long we have been without that also includes masturbation.
02/17/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
Pretty much 50/50 but I'm probably actually in the mood more often than him.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
He always initiates but we both want it. I just like him to chase a little.
03/31/2011
Contributor: AnotherPrettyFace AnotherPrettyFace
I would say a 70/30 split between us. I am an initiator.
02/16/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Hard to be sure, I always feel like I iniiate it just because I love kissing/cuddling/oral, but he's always the one saying "sex now"
02/17/2012
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
it's definitely a mutual thing for us. we both have a "look" haha
02/17/2012