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Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
When having sex I would much rather be on the bottom but my bf would rather me be on top. Which one do you prefer?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Me on top
Nyx (Under the Covers) , Redweird , married with children , lovebites , Alyxx , rockblenny , MrWishyWashy , Incendiaire , hanjonatan , apryls , Bethy Cassatt , PropertyOfPotter , xMila , Gluesnffr , mr115393
15  (26%)
Partner on top
- Kira - , KrissyNovacaine , Taylor , solitudinarian , Rossie , Sera26 , konicaguy , VanillaFreeSex , Geogeo , Deeder , sugar&spikes , sexxxkitten , Huff , deltalima , malantha , dawnkye , meitman , EdenG , Gunsmoke , minstrel69 , Zombirella , Zandrock , chelly411 , Stagger13 , Cheluh10 , Thumper Logic , Passion plum , *Camoprincess* , Bignuf , cherryredhead88 , Missmarc , ViVix , AmethystSmoke , johnnyjohn , woodsdragon , Lioncub , KittenPrincess , Lildrummrgurl7 , LAndJ , Sunny Meadows , libbyv , SecretKinksters
42  (74%)
Total votes: 57
Poll is closed
11/03/2012
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Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
This is hard. It really depends, but at this moment I would rather have my partner on top.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I don't like being on top, I can't orgasm that way.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I prefer missionary, but my husband likes to have me on top, so I usually ride him first, then switch to my favorite position.
11/03/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
me.
11/03/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by ginnyluvspotter
When having sex I would much rather be on the bottom but my bf would rather me be on top. Which one do you prefer?
My wife is a real cowgirl!
11/03/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
many women can actually reach orgasm easier on top because you have more control. however for women like myself, it's harder to "let go" and therefore more difficult to orgasm. i get self conscious when on top because i have less experience on top, but then how am i gonna gain that confidence unless i do it more, lol
11/03/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
It's a lot easier for me to orgasm on top, so we will often start with me on top and switch after I cum. Once I've orgasmed I'm pretty much useless for a little while, I can't keep a rhythm and I go a bit floppy until I recover. So it's a lot easier to just switch position to something that has him doing most of the work.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by ginnyluvspotter
When having sex I would much rather be on the bottom but my bf would rather me be on top. Which one do you prefer?
we both prefer man on top
11/03/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I prefer for my husband to be on top. I know he prefers me to be on top, but I never quite know "what to do", and end up feeling like a doofus.
11/03/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
my partner
11/03/2012
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
It seems to work out better for me to be on top.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
I like both. We usually switch up positions two or three times anyway, so we get a bit of everything thrown in there!
11/03/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Partner on top
11/03/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I think I prefer to be on top.
11/03/2012
Contributor: no longer here no longer here
Need a selection for both equally. We switch it up.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Huff Huff
Partner on top
11/03/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
She's on top more of the time. We both like it that way.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife likes to be on top. Not because she 'likes it' but because she can control stimulation so orgasms more easily. I'll can lay back and cum with her - or switch after she's done.
11/04/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
9 times out of 10, I prefer it to be him. I just have body image issues.
11/04/2012
Contributor: apryls apryls
Quote:
Originally posted by ginnyluvspotter
When having sex I would much rather be on the bottom but my bf would rather me be on top. Which one do you prefer?
I like to have control so I like top
11/04/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
i'm on top most of the time, but i like it a lot when she is, too. so on balance, me, but i wouldn't want to be on top every time.
11/04/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
We often switch it up.
11/04/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Me on top
11/04/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It feels better for me to be on top, but he cums quicker that way too.
11/04/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
girlfriend on top
11/04/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
Depends on my mood. I like when I'm on top cuz I can control how everything goes ;-)
11/04/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by ginnyluvspotter
When having sex I would much rather be on the bottom but my bf would rather me be on top. Which one do you prefer?
We mix it up to keep things interesting.
11/04/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Usually I prefer being underneath, I do better that way
11/04/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
I like him on top.
11/04/2012