When you are having sex with your partner in a long-term relationship, who or what do you think about during sex? Especially in the phase when you want to achieve an orgasm.
A) I admire the sexy forms of my partner's body. (Admiring which body parts is most arousing during sex?)
Or then, maybe even with your eyes closed:
B) I imagine the lovely bodies that I once saw in porn. (Why? Because your partner's body is not very interesting?)
C) I imagine the sexy body of some other person whom I know personally. (Why? Is this person sexier than your partner?)
D) I imagine some other person, but not specifically the sexiness of his or her body. (Why? Do you love this person more, or are you just seeking more thrill from a wild fantasy?)
E) I think (or at least I hope) that my partner is looking at my sexy body with admiration.
F) I focus on my own experience of physical pleasure. I think about my own physical sensations.
G) I think how much I love my partner.
A) I admire the sexy forms of my partner's body. (Admiring which body parts is most arousing during sex?)
Or then, maybe even with your eyes closed:
B) I imagine the lovely bodies that I once saw in porn. (Why? Because your partner's body is not very interesting?)
C) I imagine the sexy body of some other person whom I know personally. (Why? Is this person sexier than your partner?)
D) I imagine some other person, but not specifically the sexiness of his or her body. (Why? Do you love this person more, or are you just seeking more thrill from a wild fantasy?)
E) I think (or at least I hope) that my partner is looking at my sexy body with admiration.
F) I focus on my own experience of physical pleasure. I think about my own physical sensations.
G) I think how much I love my partner.
