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Which position is better: Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl?

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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
The Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl positions -- which one gives you better "internal" stimulation?
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The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , RonLee , OH&W, Lovebears , C&K0143 , That Man from Mars , SexScienceAndFood , funfan1 , toyluvers78 , CharmCity , Sarebear&Del , Ultra , Inquisitor , Sir , Andykh , wicked weasel , TheToyGuy , Gunsmoke , NJ casanova , Brandon , konicaguy
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RonLee , Husband and Wife , Wet , 2BudZ , Inquisitor , Sir , TheToyGuy , UtahHubAndWife , Soundside46
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Wicked Wahine , Kitten has left the site , edeneve , Rossie , KinkyNicki92 , CoffeeCup , guard083 , Coco85 , Lauren Greenberg , SailorJulyxo , Jmo2280 , Sincerely yours, N , MesmerizingMilf , Sarebear&Del , Vnessa , Moxie , nikki0668 , heather-mooney , ChasityMurvine , Swing Curious
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PadoruLover , Hermosura21 , LoveReImagined , Sangsara , yw2 , KittiezToyz , Jmo2280 , couples1 , DeliciousB , Honeymuffin33
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irishlove , Lvstoplay , ScorpioCurves , That Man from Mars , QueerFemmeinist , Sangsara , symbiasin , Isola , TheToyGuy , Lioncub , lala22 , SpookyB
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Total votes: 71 (62 voters)
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Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I have a better time in cowgirl because I can grind my clit against him better
03/23/2014
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
Reverse Cowgirl for me
03/23/2014
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Cowgirl for me Last time I did reverse I fell off and landed on the floor ._. nope.
03/24/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
cowgirl - always!!!
03/24/2014
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
(Review Program Mentor)
Reverse isn't such a great view, is it? I prefer cowgirl.
03/24/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Cowgirl for me Last time I did reverse I fell off and landed on the floor ._. nope.
@Castielskitten: Oh no! That's awful, you poor thing!

@charmedtomeetyou: I guess the view is good for the guy provided they really like your tush and it's right there and easy to see & play with (they can also stare all they want, ha!). But, yeah, for the top, it's just a view of legs and feet, lol! Although, if you're flexible, you can watch the action down below and you have access to his scrotum and perineum.
03/24/2014
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
@Castielskitten: Oh no! That's awful, you poor thing!

@charmedtomeetyou: I guess the view is good for the guy provided they really like your tush and it's right there and easy to see & play with (they can also stare all they ... more
Yeah, I'm sure the view is great for him...but feet? not so much!
03/24/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by charmedtomeetyou
Yeah, I'm sure the view is great for him...but feet? not so much!
Exactly!! Hahaha!
03/24/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
@Wicked Wahine: I agree with you! There's a lot more stimulation for me when riding cowgirl!

@Castielskitten: Ouch! Sorry to hear that!

@charmedtomeetyou: Yup, the view's better, and there's a lot more things he can do to me when I'm riding cowgirl!
03/24/2014
Contributor: Hermosura21 Hermosura21
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
Cowgirl for me Last time I did reverse I fell off and landed on the floor ._. nope.
Oh my sorry to hear that.. I would have to say reverse cowgirl is my fave
03/25/2014
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
The Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl positions -- which one gives you better "internal" stimulation?
I'm a girl and I went with other. This is because with my ex I really enjoyed reverse. With my current boyfriend, his shape and size doesn't work well with reverse. It's actually uncomfortable for him.
03/25/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
If I'm wearing a strapon above my penis, reverse cowgirl is easier for a dp.
03/25/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by dv8
If I'm wearing a strapon above my penis, reverse cowgirl is easier for a dp.
May I ask which position stimulates you better "internally"?
03/25/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
May I ask which position stimulates you better "internally"?
My gf prefers reverse cowgirl for that situation because normal cowgirl would mean that the dildo would be in her vagina and longer dildos would bruise her cervix if she thrusted all the way.
03/25/2014
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Rossie
The Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl positions -- which one gives you better "internal" stimulation?
I am a guy and I enjoy her riding me cowgirl. The problem is that I hurt her if she rides me reverse cowgirl. I personally enjoy it but if its hurting her it doesn't last long and if that's the case a short time brings down that fun level.

I personally LOVE IT when she is on top and grinds her clit into me. Truthfully I ask her to take her time and grind me for a while without riding up and down on me. It feels great and also stimulates me differently.
03/28/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
@dv8: Yes, I can picture that!

@The-IT-Guy-And-My-Sec retary: Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective!
03/30/2014
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
As a bi guy, when receiving, I like both. However reverse cowgirl seems to make entry easier and if my partner doesn't have a very firm erection, that may be a go/nogo factor.
03/31/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I'm a guy and do like both cowgirl positions. Front give a good view of her tits bouncing and reverse her heiny. Don't like all the wet stuff dripping down on me though.
05/19/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I'm a guy and do like both cowgirl positions. Front give a good view of her tits bouncing and reverse her heiny. Don't like all the wet stuff dripping down on me though.
...grab a towel!
05/19/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Rossie
...grab a towel!
As a matter of fact we not only use towels but also a cloth and a mat. Good thing we have plenty of towels.
05/20/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
As a matter of fact we not only use towels but also a cloth and a mat. Good thing we have plenty of towels.
She probably need to cut down on Damiana pills! LOL
05/20/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
I am a guy and I enjoy her riding me cowgirl. The problem is that I hurt her if she rides me reverse cowgirl. I personally enjoy it but if its hurting her it doesn't last long and if that's the case a short time brings down that fun level. ... more
I wish I could find someone who would like to have me just grind away like you do without always wanting the up and down ! I find that really is all I need in cowgirl and I prefer it to up and down. My best guess, besides clit action, is that I am getting my cervix (and God knows what other hot spots) massaged. When I play with dildos, I rarely thrust and just move around with the dildo inside me. I usually start to fall climax when my cervix is stimulated (massaged/rubbed); it drives me crazy and gives me a really deeply satisfying orgasm that goes on and on! I think that is what's happening when I am in cowgirl and just grinding away. I think it's more about cervical stimulation combined with the clit massage and being so close up to my partner (if he is sitting, too), I can see all his reactions and grab onto him. I love being held tightly while doing this and we both have our arms free, so there's lots of touching going on... I love it!
05/20/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Rossie
She probably need to cut down on Damiana pills! LOL
LMAO! It's interesting though that he doesn't like all the wetness and yet many guys are really turned on by that and squirting; they want you to come all over them, even on their face. Different strokes, I guess.
05/20/2014
Contributor: ScorpioCurves ScorpioCurves
I like both, but between those two choices Reverse Cowgirl would be my "go-to" position because it's versatile. It's easier to use toys on myself & it grants me access to my partner's genitals (depending on their anatomy). Which means that I can grab, squeeze, tickle, etc. I also like the feeling that both positions have of being in control of my own pleasure (which is a total turn on!)
05/20/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
LMAO! It's interesting though that he doesn't like all the wetness and yet many guys are really turned on by that and squirting; they want you to come all over them, even on their face. Different strokes, I guess.
...and now I'm curious to know how he handles the wetness when he gives her oral!
05/20/2014
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Rossie
...and now I'm curious to know how he handles the wetness when he gives her oral!
People can be flexible and learn to really enjoy something that initially they didn't like.
05/20/2014
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
I love them both, cowgirl I get to have my toys played with while in reverse he plays with my ass.. And my man loves the juices flowing.. He always eats the creampie when he is done
05/20/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Rossie
She probably need to cut down on Damiana pills! LOL
I think it is the excitement of being on top and gravity. She only on top when it's my birthday, or she's really
05/20/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
...and now I'm curious to know how he handles the wetness when he gives her oral!
Since you brought it up, she doesn't like to get oral as much lately. She has squirted on my face several times few years ago. I did enjoy giving her that much excitement. I guess you can say we don't like a messy nest.
05/20/2014