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When using toys while masturbating do you prefer your partner or you to use them?

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Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
Are you more into your partner using toys on you or letting yourself enjoy playing with the toys?


I really enjoy my partner using a toy on me because it adds a level of randomness and mystery to what is coming next. Although I can see why some would like to control the feeling when they use the toy themselves.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I like when my partner does it.
6  (24%)
I like it more when I use it myself.
4  (16%)
I enjoy both the same.
15  (60%)
Total votes: 25
Poll is closed
04/02/2012
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Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by WD40watcher
Are you more into your partner using toys on you or letting yourself enjoy playing with the toys?


I really enjoy my partner using a toy on me because it adds a level of randomness and mystery to what is coming next. Although I can see why ... more
I enjoy both
04/02/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
i would love my bf to do it but sometimes he doesnt know how i like it and will pull away right b4 i orgasm or not apply enough pressure
04/02/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I prefer my partner using toys on me, so I can focus on the pleasure I'm receiving, and the feeling is always more intense.
04/02/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I like both
04/02/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
All our toys are 98% partner play.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I like both
04/02/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I have never had a partner use a toy on me, but in my fantasies it's pretty awesome!
04/02/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by gloomybear
i would love my bf to do it but sometimes he doesnt know how i like it and will pull away right b4 i orgasm or not apply enough pressure
I agree - I find thats my problem as well!
04/02/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by xilliannax
I agree - I find thats my problem as well!
Communication, communication...
04/02/2012
Contributor: Various Various
I love both.
04/02/2012
Contributor: sexynola sexynola
I prefer using them on myself instead of my partner because I know exactly where and how to get that feeling I
04/02/2012
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by WD40watcher
Are you more into your partner using toys on you or letting yourself enjoy playing with the toys?


I really enjoy my partner using a toy on me because it adds a level of randomness and mystery to what is coming next. Although I can see why ... more
I love that level of randomness. Its fun to use a toy on her and have her use it on me. Sometimes I enjoy using the toy by myself and thinking about her using it on me.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
It depends on the toy. Glass, for instance, is a ME-ONLY material in our house. Squishy silicone is equal opportunity.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Sally Forth Sally Forth
Depends on the partner and the toy.
04/03/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Depends on the situation, certain toys I would prefer to use on my own specifically because I'm by myself and it would be kind of odd for me to substitute when I actually have a partner there.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I prefer when my husband uses toys on me, simply because having that sort of unpredictability makes it so exciting!
04/03/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
it always changes, sometimes I do it, sometimes she does it.
04/05/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by WD40watcher
Are you more into your partner using toys on you or letting yourself enjoy playing with the toys?


I really enjoy my partner using a toy on me because it adds a level of randomness and mystery to what is coming next. Although I can see why ... more
I'd love for my partner to do it, but he just doesn't seem interested.
04/07/2012
Contributor: hotcherry hotcherry
I like it when my partner use it.
07/08/2012