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Contributor: chidoll chidoll
I started masturbating very early and it never occurred to me that it could be unusual. But a while back, a cousin confided in me that she found her very young step-son masturbating, and she was horrified.

I live in a place that's very... let's say... icy, when it comes to anything about sex, so I was never able to talk with friends or relatives about it. The first I knew about sex while growing up, I discovered in the human sexuality section at the library. We had no sex ed in school, my mother never gave me a single word of The Talk, and any time I attempted to broach the subject with a friend, I was met with disgust or vague shaming, despite knowing most of my friends were having sex. (Discovering what sex and masturbation were all by myself turned out to be a very good thing. I don't want to think about what my sex life would be if I hadn't been a precocious reader and my only information came from socialization.)

So, long story short, I'm just wondering when/how you guys started masturbating? And were you shamed for it? Or were you raised with a healthy attitude toward pleasure?
05/24/2020
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a preteen I was curious about the new phenomena of a 'hard-on' and started playing with it! Next thing you know things are popping out all over
05/24/2020
Contributor: QueenofEverything81 QueenofEverything81
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Originally posted by chidoll
I started masturbating very early and it never occurred to me that it could be unusual. But a while back, a cousin confided in me that she found her very young step-son masturbating, and she was horrified.

I live in a place that's very... ... more
I discovered my clit in the shower at about 16. I grew up in a religious household where the topic was never discussed, but it felt good and I started experimenting with various methods.
05/24/2020
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by QueenofEverything81
I discovered my clit in the shower at about 16. I grew up in a religious household where the topic was never discussed, but it felt good and I started experimenting with various methods.
This is not a judgement - it just astounds me that you could get to age 16 before discovering your clit. I asked my wife and she says that she got to know hers about the time she started menstruation (about 9)

Anyway, glad you found it - and the lifetime of pleasure it will bring you!
05/25/2020
Contributor: camgirls camgirls
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
This is not a judgement - it just astounds me that you could get to age 16 before discovering your clit. I asked my wife and she says that she got to know hers about the time she started menstruation (about 9)

Anyway, glad you found it - and ... more
I don't remember very well the first time I masturbated but what I do remember is that at the age of 18 I started to have my first sexual relations and since I didn't know very well how to do it before doing it with a girl I would get into cam sex and to take references for the time to practice sex in real life. I have to say that it helped me but many of the sex scenes you see in front of a webcam are not very real
05/26/2020
Contributor: illBeYourButtSlut illBeYourButtSlut
When i was about 9 or 10 ?????? it became a all day habit LOL
05/26/2020
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
I think my first time was when I was 12. Also I was super quiet about it so no one knew. I know my parents would have never agreed to it, plus I don't think my parents would need to know anything like that about me haha.
05/26/2020
Contributor: Hot Blooded Hot Blooded
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Originally posted by chidoll
I started masturbating very early and it never occurred to me that it could be unusual. But a while back, a cousin confided in me that she found her very young step-son masturbating, and she was horrified.

I live in a place that's very... ... more
I was also raised with sexual pressure when i was young. I started masturbating at the age of 8 and it was before i could even produce cum.I would get the feeling of ejaculation but it was dry. I learned it from the books That I found in my parents room. I was never shamed for it since it was always in secret and no one found out. I became very sexual in my teenage years and found myself pleasuring at any given time. I am in early 50 now and still at a very high sexuality level and I believe it is due to starting young in masturbating.
05/27/2020
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
I was super young. Like, preschool age. I honestly don't even remember how I discovered it, it's kind of something I've done for as long as I can remember. Of course, back then I had no idea what it was or what it was called, I just knew that it felt really good if I rubbed a certain spot between my legs. Though even from a young age, I seemed to have the good sense to know not to do it in public or in front of other people (probably because it involved a "bathing suit area"). I wasn't really ashamed of it, I just knew it was private.

It wasn't until high school that I started to experiment with ways of pleasuring myself beyond just rubbing my crotch through my clothes. I gained intimate knowledge of my electric toothbrush and my removable shower head, haha. Weirdly, I didn't really start experimenting with masturbation until after I'd had sex for the first time.
05/31/2020
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
I can’t honestly remember. Maybe 12 or 13?
06/10/2020
Contributor: Marv Marv
Quote:
Originally posted by chidoll
I started masturbating very early and it never occurred to me that it could be unusual. But a while back, a cousin confided in me that she found her very young step-son masturbating, and she was horrified.

I live in a place that's very... ... more
This got long as I wrote, sorry. I may have been 14 or 15 when I started. I got horny while out by myself running a piece of heavy equipment and it had a hole in one part that my penis when hard fit perfectly. I used some motor oil and that hole for my first orgasm. I found many different ways to enjoy orgasms, I still try to find new ways to orgasm.
I don't remember being embarrassed/shamed about masturbation. I was very shy when I was young, so I didn't share things with others that I considered private. I lived in a small mid-western town so I could always find a way for privacy if I needed some quality time alone. If I still lived there I would probably spend more time outside naked and playing.
I enjoyed reading, so I also learned a lot about sex from reading. We didn't have internet in the "stone ages" when I grew up, and I didn't have the money to buy porn mags. One of my older male relatives had a penthouse subscription that started me on the path of reading porn. I still get more out of stories than pics or videos. Reading also opened the door to my urethral play.
06/16/2020
Contributor: Shark09 Shark09
I would say I was about 5 years old when I started. I just remember laying on the floor on the side of my bed so no one would see me.
11/19/2020
Contributor: Toyytoyy Toyytoyy
I started masterbating at 13 after my first time with with the same sex. I knew as a girl what I wanted done and as a pleaser I knew how to please my self
02/09/2021
Contributor: 20yearstogether 20yearstogether
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Originally posted by chidoll
I started masturbating very early and it never occurred to me that it could be unusual. But a while back, a cousin confided in me that she found her very young step-son masturbating, and she was horrified.

I live in a place that's very... ... more
As soon as I woke up!
02/10/2021
Contributor: MagneticDuke MagneticDuke
I was 13 or 14, I think. I'm actually a little odd because I didn't start masturbating for pleasure, I started because I would get distracted from my school lessons by seemingly-random erections, so I would masturbate before bed each night to get it out of my system. Wasn't until I was about 16 or 17 that I actually bothered to enjoy it, but by then my hormones were under better control and I wasn't risking random hard-ons anymore; I was also more accustomed to working through them by that point, so they weren't anywhere near as distracting.

I think that my unusual start to my love/sex life also affected my taste in women; as I find the body secondary to the mind and personality inside it when I evaluate how sexy a potential partner is, to the point that the body can be ignored if I really like the person.
02/11/2021