The New Intimacy

What if your partner couldn't have sex? A deep question.

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
If your partner had a medical condition or an injury that wouldn't allow them to have sex, what would you do?

I'm going to assume that love would win over and you would stay with them. What I really want to know is how you would fulfill your own sexual needs. Would you live on masturbation alone, solo and as a couple? Would you invest in a high dollar and high quality fucking machine? Would you quietly cheat on your partner because you really need sex? Would you ask for an open relationship so you could fulfill your sexual needs without feeling guilty? Maybe something different?
02/13/2013
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Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
I'm not really big on the idea of sex machines, I think I would feel silly.
And I would feel terrible cheating and I wouldn't feel comfortable having an open relationship. I would just stick to using my toys, either by myself or as a couple.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Hoshigetsu Hoshigetsu
I would definitely stick to toys, but it would also be interesting for me. It might allow my partner and I to explore me a little more since they couldn't have sex. I could look at the positive side and be able to enjoy some quiet adventurous nights... masturbation would definitely be the way to satisfy me physically. I have never even heard of a sex machine and I would never cheat or ask for a open relationship because I myself don't think I would be open to the idea of opening up to anyone but my significant other.
02/13/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I would stay and we would work on finding ways that we could both feel satisfied in the situation we were put in. I would NEVER cheat on him, and I would not ask for an open relationship. It wouldn't be his fault for having a condition that made him unable to be intimate with me in that way, I could never do that to him. I would take care of myself and he could satisfy me in other ways. If he could still function enough to have an orgasm, I would give that to him, even if vaginal penetration was never an option.
02/13/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I would stay and find ways to work around it. I don't believe in cheating. Sex machines are not my thing.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
i would stay with my wife only if she allowed me to have sex with other people. yes, i love her that much but sex is VERY important to me.
02/13/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I would stay and we would work on finding ways that we could both feel satisfied in the situation we were put in. I would NEVER cheat on him, and I would not ask for an open relationship. It wouldn't be his fault for having a condition that ... more
I agree with all this!!!

When I was going through a few health issues from the car accident, I could not have sex for about two months. Toys used as a couple, his mouth and fingers and masturbation alone and together was just as satisfying to both of us. Even though I could not have an orgasm (too painful with my broken ribs, back and neck damage), I really got...satisfied giving and watching his. Sometimes having to be creative out of necessity opens doors that are AMAZING!!!
02/13/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
If my man couldn't have sex I wouldn't cheat, I would be satisfied with him using toys on me and giving me oral. I would pleasure him anyway I could as well. If its out of his control why should I ask for an open relationship or leave? That would be rude and hateful, if you love someone it isn't just for the sex there is more to it. We can still cuddle and have the intimate side of things even without full blown sex.
02/13/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Martiniman
If your partner had a medical condition or an injury that wouldn't allow them to have sex, what would you do?

I'm going to assume that love would win over and you would stay with them. What I really want to know is how you would ... more
I love my man but he has a low sex drive cuz he is older. I wouldn't leave him, but Eden would have plenty of business from me!!
02/16/2013