I'm so self concious about my weight. I'm very tall and long legged, but I am chunky. He says he looooves my body, but eveytime he asks me to get on top, I wanna cry. How could he ASK such a thing? I've done it a few times, but I feel so awkward and uncomfortable.
What are you most self-conscious about during sex?
08/05/2011
def. my body shape. Trying hard not to be so self conscious, but it's not easy!
08/05/2011
It kind of depends on who my partner is and the position.
11/03/2011
I am not self conscious about anything during sex.
11/03/2011
I'm super self conscious about pleasing my partner. I always feel like I could/should be doing something better/more/etc. He says I'm great and he loves being with me, but I still never feel good enough. I know I'm the most caring partner he's been with sexually, so compared to his exes I know I'm pleasing him very well, but I still want to be even better.
11/03/2011
My body shape, and that it takes me wayyyyy longer to have an orgasm than it does for him. I often start to feel bad thinking he must be getting bored.
11/03/2011
I hate the noises my body makes while we have sex.
I'm also super self conscious about my appearance, so we almost always have the lights off.
I'm also super self conscious about my appearance, so we almost always have the lights off.
11/05/2011
I'm occasionally worried about crushing my tiny husband, since I outweigh him by 60 pounds, but I am not self-conscious about my largeness. I don't have any problems pleasing him, I just don't want to break him.
11/05/2011
I'm not too highly concerned with any one thing, but a little of a few things all mixed together, lol.
11/05/2011
I didn't vote, but I'd go with someone looking at me. I don't like looking someone in the face most of the time while fucking, not sure why.
11/05/2011
oh god..being fully naked. Dx i just..i can't do it.
11/06/2011
I want to please him, not make weird sounds, look great, have an orgasm so there's a lot there.
11/06/2011
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What is considered a while and is that with or without masturbation included? Thank you.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I have two problems - if I'm really hot and it's been a while, I have to hold back as long as I can. But if we've been having sex frequently or it's been a short time between sessions - then having an orgasm at all can be a
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I have two problems - if I'm really hot and it's been a while, I have to hold back as long as I can. But if we've been having sex frequently or it's been a short time between sessions - then having an orgasm at all can be a problem.
Getting old is a bi***.
Cock rings and Cialis have both been very useful. less
Getting old is a bi***.
Cock rings and Cialis have both been very useful. less
11/06/2011
I haven't thought about it--I just go with the flow and what he thinks, he thinks, but so far no complaints.
11/06/2011
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hellothere - we're in different leagues. i'm more than 2x your age. at 57 having an orgasm every-other-day is a pretty good deal. when i was your age 2x a day was easily possible. i'm not sure i can offer you any useful advice.
Originally posted by
teachmetouchme
What is considered a while and is that with or without masturbation included? Thank you.
11/07/2011
I'm really self-conscious about my skin
02/21/2012
My wife is most self-conscious about her weight/looks, and I'm most concerned about pleasing her.
02/22/2012
I worry about whether or not I'm going to reach orgasm (because that's really important to him) and how my body looks. Before, I was REALLY small, wearing size 3 jeans. Over the past year I went up two sizes and even though I didn't gain much weight (prob 5- lbs) I ended up with stretch marks on my ass and hips. Hate them so much!
02/22/2012
Reaching orgasm too quickly. It does not seem to bother my wife, whether or not she has had one. If we have not had sex in a few days, sometimes I do get over excited. Problem is that I'm usually up for round 2, but my wife thinks I'm kidding.
02/22/2012
Nothing
02/22/2012
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my weight
Originally posted by
KaraSutra
I was curious to know where most people find themselves on this issue. It seems to be something many people deal with, yet don't really talk about.
02/23/2012
My shape
02/23/2012
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pleasing my partner
Originally posted by
KaraSutra
I was curious to know where most people find themselves on this issue. It seems to be something many people deal with, yet don't really talk about.
03/21/2012
Pleasing my partner
03/30/2012
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I would have to say pleasing my partner. When she is happy, I am happy.
Originally posted by
KaraSutra
I was curious to know where most people find themselves on this issue. It seems to be something many people deal with, yet don't really talk about.
03/30/2012
Well, after three kids, let me just say that my belly isn't exactly flat! Thankfully there's been no damage to the important places, but I still have a hard time 'cause of my belly.
04/03/2012
I tend to worry most about actually pleasing my partner(s). I kinda fear being a let down for them. It seems to be a needless fear, because for the numerous years my partner and I have been together, he claims I'm great.
Although, I don't like being too noisy. I'm typically afraid of people overhearing.
Although, I don't like being too noisy. I'm typically afraid of people overhearing.
04/03/2012
my partner does a wonderful job of complimenting my body shape so that doesnt bother me my biggest concern is smelling down there which can happen when im stressed and he has commented on it b4
04/03/2012
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Sometimes I worry about odor and very rarely I worry about my body shape. But rarely usually I feel really good about myself
Originally posted by
KaraSutra
I was curious to know where most people find themselves on this issue. It seems to be something many people deal with, yet don't really talk about.
05/17/2012
Mine is body shape and parts of my genitals
05/18/2012