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Contributor: BiBrian BiBrian
Recently I've thought about one weird thing - every year I celebrate Valentine's day alone. Even if I'm in relationships with someone, there are always a business trip, an illness, or other things that make us apart.

And this time the situation is being complicated by the fact I haven't had any relationships for a long time, and I feel so lonely and unhappy. And the closer Valentine's day is, the stronger is this feeling.

So I thought - there are loads of ways and advice on how to spend this day and what gifts to give for couples, but what about those who are single? Lonely people deserve and have a right to celebrate love too!

And I felt like we desperately need a thread to discuss the best ways of celebrating Valentine's day for singles.

Please, share your ideas and thoughts about how to stay happy and feel loved on V-day if you're not in relationships.
01/13/2020
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Contributor: Croc Croc
- go to a random paintball club and join any team for the day. There's always 5x4 or bigger groups that need extras. Bring snacks and water, some clubs don't provide that

- if there's a national park or a zoo close to you, drive there and buy animal food. you can feed squirrels, or even roe deers. I visit zoo maybe 2-3 times a year and feed the same deers, they already recognize me

- there's this thing in places where hills are close to cities - paragliding. You don't jump with a parachute, but you sit in a seat with a guy behind you. He drives...steers the parachute and you are watching or taking selfies. If you have any leg injuries, age-related health problems, it's safer than parachute jumping

- parachute jumping itself

All of the above are good places to meet girls who were feeling lonely and at the end of the day you both might eel closer, especaiily after you were painted or flew down a hill.
Her positive feelings transfer on everything around, well, you feel the same, it's a euphoric feeling. So, nothing short of love!
01/13/2020
Contributor: NinaH NinaH
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Originally posted by Croc
- go to a random paintball club and join any team for the day. There's always 5x4 or bigger groups that need extras. Bring snacks and water, some clubs don't provide that

- if there's a national park or a zoo close to you, drive ... more
All those are amazing options, but they are pretty expensive, and not every guy can afford these entertainments.

Personally I have a few friends that hate V-day because they feel like they are obligated to celebrate it with a lover and to spend a lot of money on gifts and other activities to demonstrate their love. They always say - Why love can't be celebrated on any other day when you feel for it, and without breaking a bank? And I agree at some point but still love Valentines a lot.

Since we're discussing this topic on the adult forum, I think the best way to celebrate V-day for a single person is to indulge yourself with a new sex toy and an incredibly great solo session!

Believe me, orgasms, even if they come from masturbation, help to forget many things, including loneliness
01/14/2020
Contributor: christyfuntime89 christyfuntime89
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Originally posted by BiBrian
Recently I've thought about one weird thing - every year I celebrate Valentine's day alone. Even if I'm in relationships with someone, there are always a business trip, an illness, or other things that make us apart.

And this time ... more
As a 30 year single female who has never been in a relationship before, I feel ya. Tbh any holiday can be challenging when you're feeling alone.

Well I'm not sure if you're up for it, but you can always reach out to me. I'm always up for a chat. My contact info is in my profile. Let me know!
01/14/2020
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
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Originally posted by NinaH
All those are amazing options, but they are pretty expensive, and not every guy can afford these entertainments.

Personally I have a few friends that hate V-day because they feel like they are obligated to celebrate it with a lover and to ... more
Nothing tops indulging in yourself with a new toy!
01/15/2020
Contributor: Croc Croc
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Originally posted by NinaH
All those are amazing options, but they are pretty expensive, and not every guy can afford these entertainments.

Personally I have a few friends that hate V-day because they feel like they are obligated to celebrate it with a lover and to ... more
A parachute jump can be cheaper than a silicone sex toy. To say nothing about one paintball day, to completely keep silent about a zoo fare.

Do you really think a guy who ' haven't had any relationships for a long time, and I feel so lonely and unhappy' - will feel better after masturbating?

Since he's been lonely, I'm sure he had more than enough solo sessions
01/15/2020
Contributor: Nightstalkerlove Nightstalkerlove
I cant say that Valentines day was ever an important holiday for me to celebrate even when I was seeing somebody seriously or married. For some reason there were many years that the day just seemed to pass by and neither of us even talked about doing anything and it never seemed to be that important to my significant other/wife (unless she just wasnt telling me). But I can remember a few times when I wasnt seeing anyone and I wanted to celebrate it or even try to find someone on Valentines day and I did do something for myself that I enjoyed. I always feel nice when I dress up because I dont do it very often. So I would dress up in my best clothes (nice shirt, pants, maybe jacket), put on some cologne and first go to a nice restaurant that I wanted to eat at. If it had a bar, I would usually sit at the bar but if not I would get a table for one and treat myself to a nice meal. Then I would go out to a bar and have a few drinks and talk to some people. Maybe buy a couple of drinks for a couple of ladies if I met anyone that I liked talking to. If it led to anything, great. If not I would go home and end the night with a video and solo session. But I remember always enjoying myself even though I didnt have anyone specific to share it with.
01/16/2020
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Life's too short to be unhappy. Enjoy it while you can. Perhaps try dating service? Join clubs, events of things you enjoy. That's a start of similar interest. Two single individuals we know started a relationship recently. Met playing pickleball.
01/16/2020
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Life's too short to be unhappy. Enjoy it while you can. Perhaps try dating service? Join clubs, events of things you enjoy. That's a start of similar interest. Two single individuals we know started a relationship recently. Met playing ... more
pickleball!!!!

Google: Pickleball is a paddleball sport (similar to a racquet sport) that combines elements of tennis, badminton, and table tennis.
01/16/2020