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Contributor: eri86 eri86
What ruins the mood for you without any chance of getting it back that day?
05/05/2013
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Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Stress. And that'll ruin it for days, for me.
05/05/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
bad attitude from the wife. After being gone for 12 hours a day at work, I dont like getting attitude because she had a few bad hours fighting with the kids over homework.
05/05/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
His complaining, bitching or arguments.
05/05/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When my wife starts talking about the kids or work - REALLY!
05/06/2013
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Stress, sometimes being tired, if it's too hot/cold.
05/06/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by eri86
What ruins the mood for you without any chance of getting it back that day?
Mood as in sexual mood, arousal or just good mood?

Something that will sours my good mood real quick, in general, stomach problems or a migraine can get me down. But if I can get the pain to ease up, I'll be back to the good mood.

Umm... PMS. That's probably the worst, actually because I don't want to feel irritated to the point of blowing a fuse & I don't want to feel like I've been ran over a few times by a bus and am exhausted and in pain so much, but there's nothing to make it go away. It's pure frustration on top of frustration & symptom on top of symptom. Lol.

When someone near me is being very negative -- ugh. Negative energy can quickly bring me down, so I have to get away from it if at all possible.
05/06/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Stress and right now I'm in the middle of a whopper of one! Even packed up all but 6 of my toys back in their own boxes and then into bigger boxes for storage.
05/06/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
The quickest way to have my sexual mood ruined is my partner acting immature. I don't handle immaturity in the "bedroom" well. While it is fine to have fun and joke around a little acting like either a spoiled brat or someone who is just seeing boobies for the first time is not.
05/06/2013
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by eri86
What ruins the mood for you without any chance of getting it back that day?
stress!
05/06/2013
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
When the hubby gives me attitude and doesn't even realize that his tone of voice obviously tells me that he's being a wise ass with me even though I call him out on it. And not listening -_- I swear.
05/06/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Definitely stress!
05/06/2013
Contributor: Gary Gary
Children! I am not saying the mood can't return, but that is the biggest mood killer.

KNOCK KNOCK KNOCK "MOM!"
05/07/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Gary
Children! I am not saying the mood can't return, but that is the biggest mood killer.

KNOCK KNOCK KNOCK "MOM!"
I can relate, it throws me back into Mom mode so I'm really not feeling too sexy after that. It can, however return later on once we know the little guy is asleep for the night.

Also, being really cold just kills it for me, I hate being cold and shivering doesn't help me out at all when we're trying to get something started.
05/07/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
Usually it's stress from my classes. Whenever I'm stressed I usually can't get into the right mood for sex.
05/08/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I would have to go with stress and also children. It is hard to recover and think about sex with either of those situations.
05/08/2013
Contributor: Bri9 Bri9
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Originally posted by js250
His complaining, bitching or arguments.
I completely agree with you. There is nothing that I hate more than man who complains, bitches, and argues.
05/26/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
What ruins the mood for you without any chance of getting it back that day?
farting
05/26/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
my partner being condescending. If you want to look down on me I don't really wanna go down on you
05/26/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Lack of interest in being with me along with talking about cheers to be done after he's had his pleasure but I haven't had mine.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
What ruins the mood for you without any chance of getting it back that day?
Any time my wife starts talking about things we need to do, chores, projects, finances etc.
It makes me feel like we are wasting time making love instead of doing yard work or something. Not being a participant and only a spectator, takes the mood right down, lots of times it doesn't return for a while.
05/27/2013